Confused

Earlier this year my wife a link

https://www.thedailybeast.com/i-love-these-women-only-s**-orgies-but-where-are-the-lesbians?ref=home&via=FB_Page&source=TDB with me I just skimmed through the article and that is just about it.

A few days ago she shared another link https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/dec/01/my-wife-wants-a-lover-how-can-i-help-her-find-one?utm_term=Autofeed&CM

and this left me a bit puzzled is there something I am missing? Can someone connect the dots.