Am I being unreasonable?

I just caught my bf talking to other girls. He claims it doesn't mean anything and he's just trying to have friends, but why hide it when I've told him it's okay for him to have female friends? I really don't get it... he says he hid it from me because he's afraid I'll get jealous + he's afraid of how I'll react... is that a good reason or just some BS excuse?

I don't care if he has friends that are girls... it's the fact he hides it from me that I feel suspicious and betrayed. I don't think it's asking for too much to be in the know if he is talking to other girls, is it?

I've always told him that he could have female friends (because apparently he doesn't get along with men). All I asked was for him to be open and honest with me about it... but apparently, that's me putting him "under surveillance".

You guys tell me... am I being unreasonable or is he blameshifting/manipulating the situation?

Dec 11

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  • Trust your instincts, young lady. He is totally running misdirection plays on you, honor he dont want you toping you don't see nome of the cards he's hiding in his lap or slipping up his sleeve. And DO NOT let him blame you for his infidelity.

  • He wants to f*** them. Trust me I'm a man. He wants their p**** badly

  • No No No No No! You are right to be suspicious. You should suspect him. He is f****** all those b itches like a f****** maniac. At least some of those girls pretend to be your friend but those are the ones he f**** the most and the hardest. I am not saying he initiated all those relationships himself. He didn't. At least three or four of your own friends actually went to him and started teasing and flirting and swirling and heating him until he could not even say no any more because they all love doing him behind your back and so they work him extra hard. They have done that to other girls in the past so you probably already know which ones they are. They have probably asked you personal questions about what he likes best in s** so they know how to work him. But there's a much bigger problem. One of those "friends" of yours wants his baby. She wants it bad! And she has probably already stopped taking her birth control and he dont know it.

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