Close Friend Says He Will Not Speak to Me If I Vacation in FL

20, F, currently in PA. It is the 30th at the time of typing this. My sister and I leave on the 2ed. We have an entire house reserved from Jan 2 through March 2. My friend (and at one point, my boyfriend) of 5 years has told me he will never speak to me again if I go through with these plans. He is worried that I will get sick with Corona and spread it to my family, friends, and coworkers. I have told him that it will be almost impossible since our house on the beach is private. I also intend to quarantine for 2 weeks when I return. He still argues that it puts myself and others at risk, and has said it is illegal to enter FL without reason since it is a hotspot for the virus. I'm not sure if this is true or not, but he has been with me for so long that I am afraid of losing him. Our argument ended roughly and I haven't spoken to him in about two days. Looking for honest advise. What should I do? The place and tickets are paid for. I can't get all of my money back if I got a refund. Plus my sister has been looking forward to the trip for a while now. Am I being stupid, or is he being paranoid?
Thanks,
-J

Dec 30

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  • I have lived in Florida for 25 years now and it is safer here with fewer restrictions than most places in the country. Your friend is an idiot. Have fun while you are here. 😀

  • Seems quite controlling and manipulative. Get this toxic person out of your life.

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