Getting in shape for the wrong reasons

I’m a black male, 42 years, 6’4”, 250 lbs, dark skin. I’ve always been reserve when it came to pursuing women. Lately I’ve been getting noticed more by women because I’m starting to get fit for the first time in 20 years. It’s women my age mostly, a few younger women here and there but not much. The attention is motivating me but for the wrong reason. I’ve never been that guy that has s** with different women just because I could. With that said, I am a very sexually person when I’m in a relationship and I love to control my partner sexually and push limits. Now I’m starting to imagine myself sexually dominating the women that I’m getting the attention from. It’s two women in particular that I see almost daily but I’m not sure it’s a good idea. I also have a goal of getting down to 235 lbs because that is my best weight physically and when I look my best. I tell myself that I’m going to have fun with them both, one at a time, when I get down to 235! This is keeping my workouts going strong. The question that I need an answer to; is that a bad or good reward for myself?

Feb 26, 2021

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  • First off congrats on yourself fit. When you first started it sounds like women didn't notice you till you started showing your workout efforts. If the attention drives you to continue, then go for it. Don't wait to say something to the woman either. Put yourself out there. If they miss the chance then that is another womans chance. S** is a perfect way to burn calories too!
    Bottom line is your feelings better about yourself, enjoy it! Just don't lose focus of the person you are on the inside. The better that you feel, the better that s** will be.

  • Sounds like a fantastic goal. Have fun.

  • Why wait. S** is good exercise and these ladies could be part of your workout. You could reach your goal faster!

  • Do you, bruh!

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