A Total 180
I'm a 57 year old man. 3 kids, divorced a remarried. When I was 25 I got married and 29 had my first child. At 31, I caught my wife cheating on me and after a lot of back and forth I couldn't find it in my heart to stay with her, so we set in the divorce.
Got remarried when I was 44 to my current wife, Gina. We had 2 more kids and our family was running great until 3 years ago. Much like my first wife she had cheated on me although this time it was just her mouth rather than full on s**. But for some reason, I wasn't mad like last time, in fact I was turned on. Of course she was rather confused on why I was flipping out and we talked it out. We agreed that if the need were to arise we'd just find a quick sexual partner wither it be me or her. We've even swung with other couples in the past.
Even right now my wife is currently with a much younger gentleman and I can hear them from the other room. So I suppose my question is, why was I upset back than and not now. The situation was more or less the same so I'm just confused. I'd love to hear thoughts.