Crush on my Friends Dad

I've had a crush on my friend's dad ever since I started to have a sexuality. He is just the best. The problem is that he's a married 43 year old with 3 kids and a wife, and I'm 14 going on 15. My family has known ours since I was a baby.

He is tall, muscular, funny, warm, playful, compassionate, smart, everyhting I want in a man. He came to my grandmothers funeral because she would be over at my house all the time and they grew close. I will never forget the warm hug and wrock back and fowarth he gave me when he was looking sharp in a black suit. His muscles in my embrase made me so happy.

When I orgasmed by touching my c*** for the first time, I thought about him.

I love the summer because I get to see him in a bathing suit. I love seeing his bulge and outline of the top of his p**** in his swim trunks. When I know he'll be at the pool or beach with us, I'll wear my favorite Victoria's secret 2 peice so he'll see me in it.

Once I heard him say to his wife that her hair looks "really pretty" in a bun, so its became my signature look around him. Him and his wife clearly have the spark that older couples loose.

I do the Duolingo everyday for German because he lived in Germany for a few years and talks trash in front of us with my friend's German dad. I want to out of no where impress him with what I know. Its super hard though. Even though he grew up in the town we all live in, his German sounds like German people.

I'll lay on my towl with my arms behind my head so he'll see my b****, I always remmeber to shave my arm pits before. Sometimes I'll make sure I adjust it so he'll see my b****. I'll say hi so he'll look over with his warm smile and say hi back. Once I asked him to help me put sun screen on, and he said he would only for my back.

He's great at platonic touch, like patting you on the back and stuff like that. Once he poked me on the shoulder and mooved so I wouldn't see him. Right before the pandemic he went to Africa for 3 months, and when he came back I ran up to him., jumped up, and he cought me.

His humor is funny too. He reads a lot, and when my mom told him that she doesn't read as much as she wishes she should, and he replied, "what are we talking about here?" He also said, "The food in India is great, well in the places there is food."

Obviously my love of him is unhealthy. I'm literally two weeks older than his daughters. He could go to prison for laying a finger on me. He'll smerk because he knows what I'm doing. He has set firm boundries between us. He knows when I'm flirting, and he'll playfully play into it a tiny bit. I asked him if he liked my top once and he said "very sharp".

Apr 27

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  • Look people. Jacks sister again. Jack and the Burger King Poster, as I will call him, who lives down the road, are in a relationship and we would appreciated it if everyone would accept that fact, and accept them as a couple. Yes Jackie has the metal capacity of a preteen but Burger King, with all his anti-pedophilia posts, has an attraction for preteens, and THAT'S OK. Two pre-op TVs can love each other. I am asking as Jack/Jackie's sister that you appreciate that and we tolerate the Burger King and do no counter-spam him/her. Thank you!

  • Okay everyone. This is Jackie’s sister. Jackie has a disability and you are actually talking and saying things to someone who is on a 12 year old thinking process. He has been told to not post anything else to this site. Please do not say bad things about him. It just upsets him. You would not want anyone saying some of the terrible things you are saying to him to your family member. Jackie is a male. And does not do any of what is being said. Someone on here is his neighbor. I am asking as his sister and someone who loves him for you to please stop. Thank you.

  • Leviticus 18:11-17
    
“Do not have sexual relations with your stepsister, the daughter of any of your father’s wives, for she is your sister. “Do not have sexual relations with your father’s sister, for she is your father’s close relative. “Do not have sexual relations with your mother’s sister, for she is your mother’s close relative. “Do not violate your uncle, your father’s brother, by having sexual relations with his wife, for she is your aunt. “Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law; she is your son’s wife, so you must not have sexual relations with her. “Do not have sexual relations with your brother’s wife, for this would violate your brother. Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. And do not take her granddaughter, whether her son’s daughter or her daughter’s daughter, and have sexual relations with her. They are close relatives, and this would be a wicked act.

  • Ok so first off the dumb dumb who keeps posting the incest comments is way way off on this one. The dumb dumb who is posting about child harm again way way off as it is the young lady with the crush. And the one who thinks he is the neighbor is demented! The Burger King person probably needs the most help in here.

  • Deuteronomy 27:20-23
“‘Cursed be anyone who lies with his father's wife, because he has uncovered his father's nakedness.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amen.’ “‘Cursed be anyone who lies with any kind of animal.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amen.’ “‘Cursed be anyone who lies with his sister, whether the daughter of his father or the daughter of his mother.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amen.’ “‘Cursed be anyone who lies with his mother-in-law.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Amen.’

  • One Time I was having Lunch at Burger King and then in comes a group of Midgets carrying their King who was wearing nothing but a Robe and the Burger King Crown, holding a Scepter and his Throne was a Toilet.

    The King was also barefoot and he had what looked like his underwear around his ankles and oh my god the moment this a****** came in I couldn't tell what smelled worse his feet or the s*** he was taking in the restaurant as I can see everyone in the restaurant either laughing or groaning in disgust seeing a grown man sitting on the toilet in a restaurant wearing only a Crown, Robe, and his Underwear.

    Then King Feet got off his Porcelain Throne without wiping his own ass and pulled up his underwear; dear God help us if anyone saw his P****. He then stuck his barefoot in the toilet and everyone in the restaurant was showing disgust as Burger King employees began yelling at King Feet and his Court Jesters to get the H*** out of Burger King as they were violating Health Violations.

    Then King Feet took his foot out of the Toilet and began to Smell His s*** covered F****** Feet in the middle of the damn restaurant as other diners were really getting sickened.

    Then the Midgets carried King Feet over to my Table and then King Feet snatched my Whopper, put his foot in my whopper and started sucking his toes on my whopper.

    I was so mad I hit King Feet with my Drink and took his scepter and whacked him and caused him too fall off his toilet throne smashing it to the ground leaving turds and broken toilet shards on the floor of Burger King as Burger King staff came to drag this half naked King out of Burger King.

    My day was officially Ruined but Ding D*** the Burger King is Dead!!!

  • Here's a new challenge for you Tiktokers and YouTubers out there, it's the Toenail Sandwich Challenge.

    It involves wearing Flip Flops to a Subway and ordering a $5 Footlong Sandwich.

    Then after ordering your sandwich take your flops off to go use the restroom and put your bare feet in the toilets.

    Then exit the restroom and go to your table and start smelling your feet to get attention.

    Then open your sandwich, put your foot in your sandwich, and suck your toes on your sandwich until Subway Employees kick you out of the store.

    So come on het to it, this is the newest Viral Trend like Tide Pod Eating, Condom Snorting, and Gorilla Gluing your hair.

    So Come on Let's Go Eat some Toenail Sandwiches on Youtube and Tiktok..

  • Ok so first off the dumb dumb who keeps posting the incest comments is way way off on this one. The dumb dumb who is posting about child harm again way way off as it is the young lady with the crush. The Burger King person probably needs the most help in here. Lol

  • People Calling 911 over stupid reasons that phone line is for lifeor death emergencies not a complaint hotline seriously there could be a armed robbery, a stroke victim or a house is on fire and the Police, Fire, or EMT can't make it cause some dumbass is holding up the lines to complain about messed up orders at McDonald's, Burger King, and Subway.

    It makes me so angry when people use 911 to complain about their orders at restaurants getting botched. I really don't understand what makes anybody think the Police would come to arrest a McDonald's worker because they are a Fry short of a Happy Meal.

    Recently some woman was so mad about her Chicken Sandwich at KFC she called 911 over it. I mean What the f*** do you think the Police are going to do Arrest Colonel Sanders because you don't like your sandwich? Let's also share several other stupid reasons people have called 911 over their botched fast food orders.

    A Woman was so mad at Subway who put Marinara Sauce instead of Pizza Sauce. Now really you're going to hold up real emergencies because you don't like Marinara Sauce and think it's more important than attending to a victim of a head on collision? This stupid b**** was locked up for 30 minutes because it's a waste of Police Officer's time to answer and arrest these morons who use 911 for Fast Food Orders..

  • Years ago a 42 year old man called 911, over 3 times because Subway forgot to put Mayonnaise and Mustard on his Spicy Italian Sub. Seriously is that such a big emergency to bring the police all the way down to subway, to fix a SANDWICH? Not to mention the dumbass went nuts on everyone yelling at the employees and customers, throwing chairs, until they locked the door on him when he went outside to call the Police over 3 times, and on call number 3 he was wondering what was taking the Police so long. Hey Dumbass the Police are trying to stop a Bank Robbery, your Sandwich isn't important to them. When they did show up they arrested the idiot for Misuse of 911

    Then a Decade ago some crackwhore called 911 because McDonalds was out of Chicken McNuggets and they wanted to give her a McDouble but she wanted a refund and when they didn't give her one so SHE CALLED 911 over McNuggets seriously I would've jumped over the counter and beat the s*** out of the employees rather than make an ass out of myself over a completely unnecessary 911 call..

  • Years ago a 42 year old man called 911, over 3 times because Subway forgot to put Mayonnaise and Mustard on his Spicy Italian Sub. Seriously is that such a big emergency to bring the police all the way down to subway, to fix a SANDWICH? Not to mention the dumbass went nuts on everyone yelling at the employees and customers, throwing chairs, until they locked the door on him when he went outside to call the Police over 3 times, and on call number 3 he was wondering what was taking the Police so long. Hey Dumbass the Police are trying to stop a Bank Robbery, your Sandwich isn't important to them. When they did show up they arrested the idiot for Misuse of 911

    Then a Decade ago some crackwhore called 911 because McDonalds was out of Chicken McNuggets and they wanted to give her a McDouble but she wanted a refund and when they didn't give her one so SHE CALLED 911 over McNuggets seriously I would've jumped over the counter and beat the s*** out of the employees rather than make an ass out of myself over a completely unnecessary 911 call.

  • A Burger King customer complained to 911 that they were out of lemonade. I mean seriously is your damn lemonade that more important than a heart attack victim or a forest fire. not to mention a 911 call over the lack of shrimp in fried rice seriously you think that's about as illegal as drug possesion? I often wonder where the intelligence of this country have gone to.

    Some dumbass called 911 because he thought McDonalds robbed him of his money after the employee told him to wait for them to complete his order. This dumbass was so high on crack and was so impatient that when he did call 911, he went as far as threaten dispatchers, by cussing them out and even told them Ronald McDonald was holding a gun to his head. The police then showed up and arrested the idiot and after that he was still b******* about his food claiming to get arrested over a $10 order. No dumbass you got arrested for Misuse of 911 and unless that McDonalds was on fire, you had no reason to call that number.

    It really is stupid that people use 911 for stupid and selfish reasons. Next time if you find yourself in a life and death situation and can't get help it's because some fucktard is holding up the lines because they're not satisfied with their fast food orders. It's idiots like these people who shouldn't even be allowed to have phones since they don't know how to use 911 properly.

  • Also, my neighbors called 911 because I was molesting my preteen cousin. It was worth it though! Then I posted some more on this site.

  • Ok so first off the dumb dumb who keeps posting the incest comments is way way off on this one. The dumb dumb who is posting about child harm again way way off as it is the young lady with the crush. The Burger King person probably needs the most help in here. Lol

    To the young lady, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you crushing on your friends dad. He has the attributes that you find important and developing and recognizing them early is healthy. Being sexually attracted to him is not in the least strange either, your hormones are yours don’t be ashamed in the least.

    Take a step back and recognize he has set boundaries because he probably cares for you and wants what’s best for you.

    Wait it out and don’t be overbearing sexually and just enjoy his company. Tempting him might easily ruin your relationship as you stated you are underage and it can lead to trouble.

    Wait a few years and if the attraction is still there when you are 16 then you can make that move, but if he says no then it is what it is.

    So before the bs comments start about the 16 remark understand that it only seems out of the norm because you were taught that and in actuality it is the age of consent in most of the states.

    If you let a 16 year old wheel a ton of steal down the road then it is very probable that they are mature enough to make decisions about their body and love life.

    By the age 30 most woman run the risk of complications of abnormalities and such with conceiving children. Put that in context only 14 years that are more than likely worry free about that aspect. So before you cast judgment about it, roll it around in your cloudy head and realize that in most countries no one would even bat an eye at a 16 year old be sexually active or that she or he prefers a mature partner who is established and can provide for them.

  • Okay everyone. This is Jackie’s sister. Jackie has a disability and you are actually talking and saying things to someone who is on a 12 year old thinking process. She has been told to not post anything else to this site. Please do not say bad things about her. It just upsets her. You would not want anyone saying some of the terrible things you are saying to her to your family member. Jackie is a female. And does not do any of what is being said. No one on here is her neighbor. I am asking as her sister and someone who loves her for you to please stop. Thank you.

  • People Calling 911 over stupid reasons that phone line is for lifeor death emergencies not a complaint hotline seriously there could be a armed robbery, a stroke victim or a house is on fire and the Police, Fire, or EMT can't make it cause some dumbass is holding up the lines to complain about messed up orders at McDonald's, Burger King, and Subway.

    It makes me so angry when people use 911 to complain about their orders at restaurants getting botched. I really don't understand what makes anybody think the Police would come to arrest a McDonald's worker because they are a Fry short of a Happy Meal.

    Recently some woman was so mad about her Chicken Sandwich at KFC she called 911 over it. I mean What the f*** do you think the Police are going to do Arrest Colonel Sanders because you don't like your sandwich? Let's also share several other stupid reasons people have called 911 over their botched fast food orders.

    A Woman was so mad at Subway who put Marinara Sauce instead of Pizza Sauce. Now really you're going to hold up real emergencies because you don't like Marinara Sauce and think it's more important than attending to a victim of a head on collision? This stupid b**** was locked up for 30 minutes because it's a waste of Police Officer's time to answer and arrest these morons who use 911 for Fast Food Orders.

  • A Woman was so mad at Subway who put Marinara Sauce instead of Pizza Sauce. Now really you're going to hold up real emergencies because you don't like Marinara Sauce and think it's more important than attending to a victim of a head on collision? This stupid b**** was locked up for 30 minutes because it's a waste of Police Officer's time to answer and arrest these morons who use 911 for Fast Food Orders.

    Then some idiot ordered 7 Cheeseburgers and when he found out he was a burger short, he called 911. now you're calling 911 over a Missing Cheeseburger please Call 911 after eating all of those damn cheeseburgers you glutton.

  • Years ago a 42 year old man called 911, over 3 times because Subway forgot to put Mayonnaise and Mustard on his Spicy Italian Sub. Seriously is that such a big emergency to bring the police all the way down to subway, to fix a SANDWICH? Not to mention the dumbass went nuts on everyone yelling at the employees and customers, throwing chairs, until they locked the door on him when he went outside to call the Police over 3 times, and on call number 3 he was wondering what was taking the Police so long. Hey Dumbass the Police are trying to stop a Bank Robbery, your Sandwich isn't important to them. When they did show up they arrested the idiot for Misuse of 911

    Then a Decade ago some crackwhore called 911 because McDonalds was out of Chicken McNuggets and they wanted to give her a McDouble but she wanted a refund and when they didn't give her one so SHE CALLED 911 over McNuggets seriously I would've jumped over the counter and beat the s*** out of the employees rather than make an ass out of myself over a completely unnecessary 911 call.

  • A Burger King customer complained to 911 that they were out of lemonade. I mean seriously is your damn lemonade that more important than a heart attack victim or a forest fire. not to mention a 911 call over the lack of shrimp in fried rice seriously you think that's about as illegal as drug possesion? I often wonder where the intelligence of this country have gone to.

    Some dumbass called 911 because he thought McDonalds robbed him of his money after the employee told him to wait for them to complete his order. This dumbass was so high on crack and was so impatient that when he did call 911, he went as far as threaten dispatchers, by cussing them out and even told them Ronald McDonald was holding a gun to his head. The police then showed up and arrested the idiot and after that he was still b******* about his food claiming to get arrested over a $10 order. No dumbass you got arrested for Misuse of 911 and unless that McDonalds was on fire, you had no reason to call that number.

    It really is stupid that people use 911 for stupid and selfish reasons. Next time if you find yourself in a life and death situation and can't get help it's because some fucktard is holding up the lines because they're not satisfied with their fast food orders. It's idiots like these people who shouldn't even be allowed to have phones since they don't know how to use 911 properly.

  • Here's a new challenge for you Tiktokers and YouTubers out there, it's the Toenail Sandwich Challenge.

    It involves wearing Flip Flops to a Subway and ordering a $5 Footlong Sandwich.

    Then after ordering your sandwich take your flops off to go use the restroom and put your bare feet in the toilets.

    Then exit the restroom and go to your table and start smelling your feet to get attention.

    Then open your sandwich, put your foot in your sandwich, and suck your toes on your sandwich until Subway Employees kick you out of the store.

    So come on het to it, this is the newest Viral Trend like Tide Pod Eating, Condom Snorting, and Gorilla Gluing your hair.

    So Come on Let's Go Eat some Toenail Sandwiches on Youtube and Tiktok.

  • A very sick guy wrote this

  • One Time I was having Lunch at Burger King and then in comes a group of Midgets carrying their King who was wearing nothing but a Robe and the Burger King Crown, holding a Scepter and his Throne was a Toilet.

    The King was also barefoot and he had what looked like his underwear around his ankles and oh my god the moment this a****** came in I couldn't tell what smelled worse his feet or the s*** he was taking in the restaurant as I can see everyone in the restaurant either laughing or groaning in disgust seeing a grown man sitting on the toilet in a restaurant wearing only a Crown, Robe, and his Underwear.

    Then King Feet got off his Porcelain Throne without wiping his own ass and pulled up his underwear; dear God help us if anyone saw his P****. He then stuck his barefoot in the toilet and everyone in the restaurant was showing disgust as Burger King employees began yelling at King Feet and his Court Jesters to get the H*** out of Burger King as they were violating Health Violations.

    Then King Feet took his foot out of the Toilet and began to Smell His s*** covered F****** Feet in the middle of the damn restaurant as other diners were really getting sickened.

    Then the Midgets carried King Feet over to my Table and then King Feet snatched my Whopper, put his foot in my whopper and started sucking his toes on my whopper.

    I was so mad I hit King Feet with my Drink and took his scepter and whacked him and caused him too fall off his toilet throne smashing it to the ground leaving turds and broken toilet shards on the floor of Burger King as Burger King staff came to drag this half naked King out of Burger King.

    My day was officially Ruined but Ding D*** the Burger King is Dead,,

  • One Time I was having Lunch at Burger King and then in comes a group of Midgets carrying their King who was wearing nothing but a Robe and the Burger King Crown, holding a Scepter and his Throne was a Toilet.

    The King was also barefoot and he had what looked like his underwear around his ankles and oh my god the moment this a****** came in I couldn't tell what smelled worse his feet or the s*** he was taking in the restaurant as I can see everyone in the restaurant either laughing or groaning in disgust seeing a grown man sitting on the toilet in a restaurant wearing only a Crown, Robe, and his Underwear.

    Then King Feet got off his Porcelain Throne without wiping his own ass and pulled up his underwear; dear God help us if anyone saw his P****. He then stuck his barefoot in the toilet and everyone in the restaurant was showing disgust as Burger King employees began yelling at King Feet and his Court Jesters to get the H*** out of Burger King as they were violating Health Violations.

    Then King Feet took his foot out of the Toilet and began to Smell His s*** covered F****** Feet in the middle of the damn restaurant as other diners were really getting sickened.

    Then the Midgets carried King Feet over to my Table and then King Feet snatched my Whopper, put his foot in my whopper and started sucking his toes on my whopper.

    I was so mad I hit King Feet with my Drink and took his scepter and whacked him and caused him too fall off his toilet throne smashing it to the ground leaving turds and broken toilet shards on the floor of Burger King as Burger King staff came to drag this half naked King out of Burger King.

    My day was officially Ruined but Ding D*** the Burger King is Dead..

  • One Time I was having Lunch at Burger King and then in comes a group of Midgets carrying their King who was wearing nothing but a Robe and the Burger King Crown, holding a Scepter and his Throne was a Toilet.

    The King was also barefoot and he had what looked like his underwear around his ankles and oh my god the moment this a****** came in I couldn't tell what smelled worse his feet or the s*** he was taking in the restaurant as I can see everyone in the restaurant either laughing or groaning in disgust seeing a grown man sitting on the toilet in a restaurant wearing only a Crown, Robe, and his Underwear.

    Then King Feet got off his Porcelain Throne without wiping his own ass and pulled up his underwear; dear God help us if anyone saw his P****. He then stuck his barefoot in the toilet and everyone in the restaurant was showing disgust as Burger King employees began yelling at King Feet and his Court Jesters to get the H*** out of Burger King as they were violating Health Violations.

    Then King Feet took his foot out of the Toilet and began to Smell His s*** covered F****** Feet in the middle of the damn restaurant as other diners were really getting sickened.

    Then the Midgets carried King Feet over to my Table and then King Feet snatched my Whopper, put his foot in my whopper and started sucking his toes on my whopper.

    I was so mad I hit King Feet with my Drink and took his scepter and whacked him and caused him too fall off his toilet throne smashing it to the ground leaving turds and broken toilet shards on the floor of Burger King as Burger King staff came to drag this half naked King out of Burger King.

    My day was officially Ruined but Ding D*** the Burger King is Dead.

  • One Time I was having Lunch at Burger King and then in comes a group of Midgets carrying their King who was wearing nothing but a Robe and the Burger King Crown, holding a Scepter and his Throne was a Toilet.

    The King was also barefoot and he had what looked like his underwear around his ankles and oh my god the moment this a****** came in I couldn't tell what smelled worse his feet or the s*** he was taking in the restaurant as I can see everyone in the restaurant either laughing or groaning in disgust seeing a grown man sitting on the toilet in a restaurant wearing only a Crown, Robe, and his Underwear.

    Then King Feet got off his Porcelain Throne without wiping his own ass and pulled up his underwear; dear God help us if anyone saw his P****. He then stuck his barefoot in the toilet and everyone in the restaurant was showing disgust as Burger King employees began yelling at King Feet and his Court Jesters to get the H*** out of Burger King as they were violating Health Violations.

    Then King Feet took his foot out of the Toilet and began to Smell His s*** covered F****** Feet in the middle of the damn restaurant as other diners were really getting sickened.

    Then the Midgets carried King Feet over to my Table and then King Feet snatched my Whopper, put his foot in my whopper and started sucking his toes on my whopper.

    I was so mad I hit King Feet with my Drink and took his scepter and whacked him and caused him too fall off his toilet throne smashing it to the ground leaving turds and broken toilet shards on the floor of Burger King as Burger King staff came to drag this half naked King out of Burger King.

    My day was officially Ruined but Ding D*** the Burger King is Dead!!

  • A very sick guy wrote this!!!!!

  • Understanding and treating survivors of incest
    March 6, 2018

    Adults with histories of being abused as children present unique challenges for counselors. For instance, these clients often struggle with establishing and maintaining a therapeutic alliance. They may rapidly shift their notion of the counselor from very favorable to very unfavorable in line with concomitant shifts in their emotional states. Furthermore, they may anxiously expect the counselor to abandon them and thus increase pressure on the counselor to prove otherwise. Ironically, attempts at reassurance by the counselor may actually serve to validate these clients’ fears of abandonment.
    The motivating factor for many of these clients is mistrust of people in general — and often for good reason. This article explores the psychological and interpersonal aspect of child sexual abuse by a parent and its treatment, with a particular focus on its relationship to betrayal trauma, dissociation and complex trauma.
    Incest and its effects
    Child abuse of any kind by a parent is a particularly negative experience that often affects survivors to varying degrees throughout their lives. However, child sexual abuse committed by a parent or other relative — that is, incest — is associated with particularly severe psychological symptoms and physical injuries for many survivors. For example, survivors of father-daughter incest are more likely to report feeling depressed, damaged and psychologically injured than are survivors of other types of child abuse. They are also more likely to report being estranged from one or both parents and having been shamed by others when they tried to share their experience. Additional symptoms include low self-esteem, self-loathing, somatization, low self-efficacy, pervasive interpersonal difficulties and feelings of contamination, worthlessness, shame and helplessness,,

  • Early childhood onset
    Incest that begins at a young age and continues for protracted periods — the average length of incest abuse is four years — often results in avoidance-based coping skills (for example, avoidance of relationships and various dissociative phenomena). These trauma-forged coping skills form the foundation for present and future interpersonal interactions and often become first-line responses to all or most levels of distress-producing circumstances.
    More than any other type of child abuse, incest is associated with secrecy, betrayal, powerlessness, guilt, conflicted loyalty, fear of reprisal and self-blame/shame. It is of little surprise then that only 30 percent of incest cases are reported by survivors. The most reliable research suggests that 1 in 20 families with a female child have histories of father-daughter child sexual abuse, whereas 1 in 7 blended families with a female child have experienced stepfather-stepdaughter child sexual abuse (see the revised edition of The Secret Trauma: Incest in the Lives of Girls and Women by Diana E. H. Russell, published in 1999).
    In 1986, David Finkelhor, known for his work on child sexual abuse, indicated that among males who reported being sexually abused as children, 3 percent reported mother-son incest. However, most incest-related research has focused on father-daughter or stepfather-stepdaughter incest, which is the focus of this article!!!

  • Beyond the physical and psychological harm caused by father-daughter incest, Courtois notes that the resulting family dynamics are characterized by:
    * Parent conflict
    * Contradicting messages
    * Triangulation (for example, parents aligned against the child or perpetrator parent-child alignment against the other parent)
    * Improper parent-child alliances within an atmosphere of denial and secrecy
    Furthermore, victims are less likely to receive support and protection due to family denial and loyalty than if the abuser were outside the family or a stranger. Together, these circumstances often create for survivors a distorted sense of self and distorted relationships with self and others. If the incest begins at an early age, survivors often develop an inherent sense of mistrust and danger that pervades and mediates their perceptions of relationships and the world as a whole.

    #THE REAL SIDE OF INCEST,...

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