Question for Those In Sub/Dom Relationships:

How did you know you were into BSDM, and how did you find your partner?

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  • When I was younger I didn't know anything about BDSM, I just did what felt right to me. Over time I naturally became more and more dominant as I realized what turned me on and what types of relationships I was happiest in. By the time I was introduced to bdsm it was like I was finally getting the words to describe things I had been doing for years. When it came time to find someone to marry, I knew I didn't want someone who was a "scene sub"... Where submissiveness was just for play...I wanted someone who was just naturally submissive always. So I spent time in several vanilla relationships digging until I found someone who had naturally gravitated towards submissiveness her entire life the way I did to dominance. Then I just laid the groundwork and brought her into the lifestyle, and she flourished. We have been together ever since.

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