I was sexually assaulted in front of my husband

My husband and I bumped into my former fiancé while shopping. I was wearing compression leggings.
Being polite, I was open to giving him a hug. During the hug he took it upon himself to give my ass a firm squeeze and pop.
I didn't want to make a scene so I playfully told him to stop. He gave my husband a fist pump and said, "You're a lucky man. She has a sexy tight ass!"
My ex used to do and say that when we were together but we're not together anymore.
I was embarrassed and p***** at both for acting like frat boys.
Later, I expressed my emotions to my husband about how that made me feel. My husband joked it off and told me to lighten up a little. He even said, 'I don't know what the big deal is. You used to have s** with the guy, you two were engaged and you lived with him for 4 years'
I'm thinking of pursuing sexual assault charges.

Jan 16

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  • Oh dear God in heaven, I am so sorry you had to go through something this horrifying. I know how traumatic abuse can be, so please pray to God for help, It took me 17 years to deal with the abuse I suffered as a child (from 4th to 8th grade), an I have been single for 16 years.. How is your husband handling it?

    I will pray for you both.

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