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Is this wrong?
Right so I am in a long term relationship with this girl, we've been together about 3 and a half years now. Anyway, I don't know for how long specifically but it's been a while, but I think of other girls sexually. Not all the time, but sometimes I do and it turns me on.
It's been playing on my mind a bit recently. I love my girlfriend and I'm certain I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but why these thoughts? Am I wrong for doing this, is this normal, or in a normal loving relationship do these thoughts never cross your mind? I'm not sure.
You were wired to wanna ** as many women as possible. Most of us are. Nothing wrong with that. Whether you choose to is up to you.
Find other couples like you and see if you can swap partners. That way you will get to ** other women and as a bonus your girlfriend can ** other men.
One has nothing to do with the other. You should draw a clear line between loving relationship respect & caring AND **, desire, fantasy, **. These things have nothing in common. If you want to know more look for Esther Perel.