My wife's boyfriend wants me to pay for his college
My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for a couple of years. She found out this young man from a dating app and they have been together for 6 months.
After the 1st month he moved in with us, and we rented a room above our home.
She made him her regular, she was being very generous to him. We had made ground rules that we will not pay for s**, but instead she would aide him in other ways, she would buy him clothes, make food for him everyday, got him iPhone.
He borrows her car everytime, and I knew this was not alright. I warned her, but she didn't take it seriously.
It all changed when he asks her to help him with his college fees. She brought this matter to me and I suggested her not to pay for it.
She decided that she'll not pay for his college fees but instead she will stop taking rent from him.
It's been 4 months since he paid rent and she still spends a lot of money on him.
She doesn't realise he is using her for her money and they have a huge age gap of more than 30 years, which is a clear red flag, but she fails to see this.
She also shares her credit card with him of her personal account, she has started to realise that he is using her for the money.