I WAS JUST ANOTHER GIRL
Okay . so many months ago i installed a dating app. and i swiped on many guys. but there was one guy that caught my attention and then we matched and we started talking. he seemed nice and then we talked a lot on the app. so after days he asked for my id and i felt a connection so i gave him . then we started talking in ints. we were talking day and night and talking about each other. so after 7 days of matching he asked to vide chat . it was my first time talking with a stranger guy . still i felt a comfort so i accepted . so months passed and we were doing great. he used to call me BABY and all. i told i dont trust people and he let me belive he was different and i should open my heart to him . but suddenly one day he told me that he found a girl that was close to him in location and they met 3 days ago and felt a connection and so he is goinf to be in a relationship with her. so i let him go. but after some days he came back and asked that i should get him back as that was not good and all. so i was also happy and all. but this time the behaviour towards me was badd. like replying text late and sometimes just ignoring me all 2-3 days and all. so i wanted him to talk but one day he said he liked me and all . but suddenly another day he said i was all too much and all clingly towards him and not givinng him space.
it was hard to move on but i slowly got used to him not being around.
6 months passed and i saw him got back with his ex . that made me sink. but then again Who am i to be sad . I WAS JUST ANOTHER GIRL TO TAKE HIM MIND OFF.
but still i am distracted since that day. tell me ways to stop thinking about that situation again and move on......
Just stay busy. Work as much as you can. You deserve better than him. If you are young most relationships don’t work out anyways due to immaturity. At least he was honest. A serious will show up period. Best of Luck
Thank you so much for such kind words.
I don't want to hear it. The amount of orbiters of men the average woman friend zones, leads on for attention, money, and back up plans far exceeds the evil from men just wanting **. Most of yall DESERVE the pain you receive in relationships. If you didn't want to be treated like the ** bag you are then you should've dated the church choir boy that every woman ignores for being too boring instead of using some trashy dating app.
start calling out women who are manipulative and cold as ** and STOP doing it yourself, then guys will stop treating yall like bags. I NEVER became a player until I realized the awfulness of your everyday woman.