I want my husband to spank me when I need one.

I had a similar desire for my wife to spank me. Eventually I decided to discuss it with her initially she was reluctant but we experimented and eventually succeeded. It has greatly increased our relationship libido and mental health. It’s not for everyone both partners need to agree it should not be done in anger or to an extreme level. Sometimes if you have an itch you need to scratch it.

I wish more women would talk about. I asked my husband to spank me. He thought it over and began trying. Just tell him you want to try it. Good luck.

My husband has spanked me. I used to be a brat. I was selfish. I work hard at being well behaved. I have developed stronger friendships because of it. "the look" from him brings me back in line. Sounds weird but I wonder how my life had been if my parents had spanked me.

Our children have never been spanked. I attribute their good behavior to my husband and how he taught me to behave.

Good to know it has helped you to grow. I value your honest thoughts on how spanking has helped you not only in your marriage but to be more self aware.

Tell him you need this to help you relieve stress & be a good wife. I spank my husband & also make him stand in the corner. Introduce this in ** talk & play.
Tell him you are embarrassed but you need this. Read about being a cuckcake or cuckqueen. This will teach your husband to control your ** also. You will both learn & enjoy this.

My wife hates being spanked which makes it so much better. The humiliation really sets in for her. First time I spanked her, we were just starting to date and she got drunk and acted crazy on a trip. Once we got to the hotel I grabbed a chair, removed her pants to reveal white **, and I spanked her 10 times over my knee. She was absolutely humiliated by it, but she never got drunk on a trip again. Punishment spankings do work, they just have to be humiliating and drive the point home.

Love that, perhaph an audience of interested men could add to the humiliation

I get real discipline spankings with a cane from my wife like this when she feels she needs to correct poor behavior, attitude or an argument. This is not a kink or sexual. There is no ** before or after. She is the disciplinarian in our relationship. It has greatly improved our marriage since shifting to this dynamic a few years ago. I think a lot of men get spanked and don't talk about it either.

I spank my husband he has a kink. He gets hard and I stroke him off.

I got spanked spontaneously one night when I came home late and had not let my husband know I was going out with friends. He grabbed my arm and held me up and spanked me with his other hand all they way to the bedroom where he read me the riot act. Believe me it sunk in. I have never stayed out without his knowing, where, with whom, when I'm coming home and I am never late

I gotta get a wife/girlfriend just like you. I love submissive women. You better be a good girl for him.

Just tell him… let me know how it works out

I think that spankings are more effective if you are punished at the time you commit the offense no matter who may be there.

Spankings are more effective if the are also humiliating. My wife has to strip naked then lay across my lap. She has to select the number of swats she it to receive. If I think the number is too low I will double or triple the swats. Then she has to count each swat aloud and ask for another. She has to say “thank you sir! May I have another?” After each swat.

I have spanked my wife in front of her friends and mine. It is very effective

I'll have to keep this in mind