Alpha Widow

So I married an alpha widow. I had no idea what that was at the time. In fact it was years in before I realized it. She’d always been quick to criticize everything I said or did. Our ** life was mostly good but with dry seasons. Then I learned about her (in her mind) hypergamous best option. It was her older married wealthy boss. She ended things with him when he refused to leave his wife. Then she and I met. Her constant comparison of me with any and all other men is indicative of the fact she does not see me as a competent man. Whether it’s carpentry, auto mechanics, finances, or the things I provide for her. There’s always someone else who is or does it better. These are competency tests. Even though she hasn’t had a job in years thanks to my providing, he could have done better. I was puzzled because she never mentions his name or compares us directly. It’s everyone else. Well I read it trauma was bad enough she will do that. One listed example of this is he refused to leave his relationship. This feels like a gut punch

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