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Happy but not satisfied
I've been dating my partner for about a year now, just longer than any of my other relationships. I have a not so great track record when it comes to choosing partners and worse with communication. For her I changed though, I express what's bothering me and what I want, emotionally or physically. its been great for our relationship as we can talk about anything and we are so close. However, she never seem to care about my physical needs. I know being ** and using toys can be unsettling at times, and there are things that some people just don't want to do/have done. That's fine but she refuses to say that. I ask if she is comfortable about what I like and want and she says it sounds great or fun. But when i comes to the moment she always back out and/or make excuses. So im forced to do what she wants or roll over and go about my time. Part of the problem is I have low sensitivity and what she wants doesn't do ** for me. Most nights i have to go finish myself because i'm ** and often unsatisfied. and this is ignoring the fact that she only ever seem to want to have ** when we are separated. its to the point i feel unwanted, really have considered cheating. I love her and wouldn't trade the connection for anything but the ** is so awful i've considered texting an ex or making a tinder.
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