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Night shift husband sleeping all ** day
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My husband permanent nights so needs to sleep during the day. OK yep fine. I occasionally have to do nights due to the job I have. Again fine. We both worked last night him 7.5hrs me 10.5hrs. Again fine. The day I have a nightshift I have to be awake all day with the kids and sort the house out while he sleeps in blissful dream land. I'm then awake all day then all night. OK so I'm use to this.
My annoyance is that he told me this morning "we" were going to get up around 12ish to spend sometimes together before picking the kids up and that he doesn't want to sleep the day away. My apparent half sleep self replied with something along the lines OK "Yer? Ok"....this seems to annoy him as he reply was well if you want to stay in bed you can but I'm not sleeping the days way..... the **??? So here we are I've been awake and up for nearly 2 hours, hung some more washing out on the washing line (after habging some out and bring some in this morning, post night shift) emptied the dishwasher, vaccumed and mopped the kitchen and he is sleeping the day away! He's not even working for the next 2 nights but I'm back at work tomorrow. Selfish **.
Make it so he can't sleep all day .
I look back on my marriage. At some point my wife stopped loving me. From then on, it seems, she found fault in everything I did.
You should have an affair to spite him.