My husband won’t spank me

I had a similar desire to be spanked by my wife. I was reluctant to tell her but eventually did. She listened and was sympathetic so we tried and it’s now something that is part of our lives. When we are both in the right mindset I will given what I would describe as being a fairly hard bare bottom spanking with a mixture of the implements we have collected. The result of these sessions is I have a red stinging bottom and we both achieve sexual pleasure and gratification. Our sexual and mental health and our relationship as improved. So my advice is to explain the importance of your desire to your partner encourage them to research the matter on the internet because it’s improved our lives

My wife acts like she doesn’t want to be spanked but she asks for it if I go a day without spanking her. I give her a good morning spanking, usually just one hard smack on each cheek and good night spankings, usually a lot on each cheek, and of course during ** I like to spank her until her ** and ** are red. Sometimes if she makes a mistake she will just voluntarily come to me and lay on my lap and tell me what she did and ask how many spankings I am going to give her. I spank her and she counts them out loud. She asked for a belt spanking and we did it but it hurt her so much she never asked for it again, but I know I can do it if I want to, I hold that over her and say do you want for me to get the belt and she will give in to anything I want to avoid it.

Be careful what you wish for.
I whip my wife and control her clothing. She endures so well but it's messed with her. She's very quiet and spaced out. She is not proactive and I have to give her a list of things to do.

So you wrecked her !