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Everyone gets this wrong
My sister and I lived in the middle of no where growing up. Everything was by car or bus. We'd get home from school and have about 3 hours before our parents got home. We got to the age when our hormones were going crazy, so you know where this is going. But the thing is that it doesn't happen the way people write about it. Its not like a flash or a look and then wham you're in bed. And, by the way, don't find yourself one minute being brother and sister and the next lovers.
You don't just cross the line. It started slow for us. First, just looking for a long while, then a little touching for a long time. It took almost a year for us to "go all the way".
There's a lot of denial, there is a lot of resistance, you make excuses in your head as why or how it happened. Then, when something does occur, you feel guilt, you swear never to do it again. You blame yourself and you blame your sister. You don't fantasize about it, you try to avoid it at all costs until that wears off and it happens again.
Trust me, after it really messes your head up if your any kind of "sane" person. You can't undo it after. Worst of all, it takes a toll on your relationship with your brother or sister.
So, for al of you who write things like, "I just slipped my hand into my sister's wet pants" you have no idea what you're talking about.
I'm a married woman - 50 yrs ago I touched my little brother for about 5 mins when my Dad walked in. I was 12, brother was 10.
We were both enjoying this new thing, then wham!
50 yrs later I am a "pervert" on that side of my family. My brother waited until our Dad's funeral to share this with the whole family. He did it again 5 yrs later at our older brother's funeral. A lot of fun explaining why he hates me to my 6 grown children!
So - you gotta an urge - take care of it without touching a family member!
I know this may be a shocker to you but you’re not the epitome of the world. Not everybody will feel the same way as you if they experienced the same situation. If you don’t make it weird it doesn’t become weird. I for one would F*** my sister and be happy with it. Nothing weird about it because she’s a girl. Being my sister doesn’t change anything either. Your personal experience doesn’t apply to everybody else just because you feel like it does. For example I like underaged girls and feel no wrong for liking what I like and I’m 40. Others say it’s wrong but I don’t feel that way. They feel that way not me. And I’m not going to change my view to please the masses. However those females I like don’t like me In this indoctrinated society so I don’t bother with them.
Yup
My brother and I, f, lived far outside of town. We started by skinny dipping in summer and things progressed from there.