** honest relationship
I miss my ex girlfriend. We were in our 30’s when we were together. We were together for about 5 years. During that time we were honest with each other about our desires. We had many open conversations during our first year together that made our ** lives so much better. For example I asked her if she liked it when I went down on her. She said it’s ok but I like your ** better. I asked why? She said because it’s thick and feels so good. I asked if she had ever been with another woman. She said yes. I said so you do like being licked. She said she honestly liked being in control so she preferred to do the licking. I asked what was one of the hottest things she had ever done. She said her and a gf was getting it on at a party. She said she was going down on her girlfriend and her ** was in the air because she was on her knees licking her girlfriend. Others were watching and that was ok with her. She heard a voice say show us that **. She opened her legs, still on her knees, so those behind her could see her **. She said she was really getting into her girlfriend when she felt someone with a thick ** sliding into her. She said it was so hot getting to do her girlfriend while someone was ** her. I told her I would like to try that and she said no problem. I have ** her while she sucked her girlfriend several times now. That wouldn’t have happened if we weren’t open and honest with each other.
I told her I loved her hot little body and would love to show it off to my friends. She said all I had to do was ask. She said she liked her body and didn’t mind showing it off. So a friend of mine and I were out doing some stuff and I told him about my gf. I asked if he wanted to see her **. He said sure. I called her and told her I was bringing a friend over and I wanted to show her ** to him. She laughed and said I’m here. We stopped by and she greeted us at the door **. We went in and she was great about showing them off. She would do this almost anytime I asked.
One afternoon we were just hanging out at the house and she never got dressed. It was great having a naked afternoon. While sitting in a chair she teased by opening her legs and showing me her **. I said I really like your shaved **. She said I thought you liked it this way. I asked if I wanted to show her off like this to my friends would she be interested. She asked if I wanted to let my friends look at her **. I said that was the idea. She laughed and said she had no problem being naked for my friends if I wanted. I called her one day and told her me and a few coworkers were at a house with a pool and asked if she would join us. She said ok I’ll bing a swimsuit. I said that won’t be necessary. She laughed and said oh it’s going to be a naked afternoon? I said if you don’t mind. She asked if there would be other women there and. I said no. Then I said I really would like her to show off her ** as much as possible. She said I understand. She asked if I wanted her to ** my friends? I laughed and said no I just want to show you off naked and them to see her shaved **. When she got there I introduced her to everyone. She looked at the pool and said why didn’t you tell me there was a pool, I would have brought a swimsuit. I laughed and said well if you want to go swimming you’ll have to just go naked. She was there about 15 minutes and said she would like to go swimming. I asked the guys if anyone minded if she went for a swim even though she didn’t have a swimsuit. They roared and said go ahead we’ll just watch. She started removing her clothes right there by the pool. All the guys were watching. When she was naked she looked at everyone and said you don’t have to be shy about looking at me. She said she didn’t mind them looking at all. She went for a swim and then got out of the pool. She didn’t attempt to put any clothes on. She stood by me and asked if she was doing ok. I said she was doing perfect. She socialized with everyone as if she had clothes on. She laid back on a poolside lounger to get some sun. She laid with legs apart slightly so everyone could see her **. Some of the guys even asked her if she liked being shaved. She said I liked it and she liked it too. They asked why shaved? She said strangely enough it was for days like this when someone is looking she liked knowing they could see her lips. She did a real nice job showing off that day. She’s not shy about it if I ask.
It was things like that that she was so comfortable with that I really liked. I was the envy of all my friends. We had many fun times together. She always would try to be open to anything I asked and I would do the same for her.
We broke up because she got pregnant and not by me. It wasn’t because she ** someone else. I would have watched her do that no problem. It was her pregnancy. She really wanted to keep the baby and I was ok with that but I wasn’t ready to be a dad to a child that wasn’t mine. She understood. Her and the baby’s father got together after our breakup. We have talked many times about the times we had together and our honesty with each other about what we liked and wanted from each other. It was a great time in both of our lives and we moved on. I still miss having someone I could be that honest with.
My gf and I have that kind of open honesty. One Halloween we were passing out candy to the kids. In our neighborhood the young kids came first and as the night went on the trick or treater’s got older. Yes in our neighborhood the adults dressed up too. Some of the adult costumes were quite ** and revealing. I told my gf I wanted her to get naked. I would greet the women and she would greet the men. She said it sounded like fun. The first adult men 20 and older that came to our door she greeted naked. Word spread that she was handing out shots naked. We had quite a few men show up that night. She said that was so much fun. I said I enjoyed watching her give out treats naked. She has gone naked at my request a few times and I love it. I asked her to think about having a **. She said what’s to think about let’s do it. I said you want a woman or a man. She said she was good with either. I said then let’s have a man. She said you want to watch me with another man? I said I wouldn’t mind watching her with a man or a woman. Since then we have done it both ways. She likes me watching her and likes watching me with another woman. Open understandings are great.
Me too. It was the 80s. Way before the internet as we know it. We were early 20s and had a neighbor in his late 40s who lived upstairs with his ailing mother. We felt sorry for him and could tell he was turned on by my girlfriend. She suggested giving him a thrill every once in awhile. She would ask him to come help her with something when I wasn't home and flash him her underwear or nips, things like that. We saw him leaving the local video store as we were entering and he had a black bag (which meant adult movie) We decided to just approach him with some ideas. Long story short...Eventually, we would have him down for drinks, have him take polaroids of us in action and give hime her dirty underwear to jacket with. He would give a hundred every once in awhile as a gift. She was the best, but couldn't beat the demon alcohol. I miss her so...
I had a gf like that too. It was a refreshing relationship knowing what each other enjoyed and was comfortable with. There was no judgement regardless of the request. She was up for most anything and so was I. One of the most memorable events was a friend of hers (male) having a hard time after the death of a family member. She told me he needed a good ** to get his mind off of things. I asked if she wanted to be the good **. She said she thought it would help him alot. I said if that’s what you want. She said it wasn’t necessarily what she wanted it was what he needed. I said do you mind if I watch? She smiled and said she hoped I would. It was hot watching her, it did help him and I scored points with her for being understanding. I love an open and honest relationship.