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I've never really liked a guy before
I'm a 17 and bisexual but I've never felt this attracted towards a guy. On my past relationships with guys I've never actually felt the same way I felt towards any female partner I've had. I have never confessed to a guy either, it has been always them confessing and me accepting.
So for the past year I've been feeling different about one of my childhood friends. We'll call him "Blue". Blue and I have known eachother since we were 7 and he had confessed to me in the past but I rejected him.
He has always been so sweet with me, always joking around and gifting me things. Last year we were on the same class and he found out that I hated the sound of a plastic whenever he touched it with his nails. Since then, he began teasing me with it an trying to make mad while calling me cute and picking me up sometimes.(Something he never did before)
I told my friend I liked him but I just couldn't confess so she texted him. He didn't believe her at first but then his reaction was "No. I don't believe you but anyway no" which I took as rejection. Time later I forced my friend to say it was just a joke since she texted him without my permission. He got mad at her and even cried, then he texted me about it and i apologize but didn't tell him the truth. (I still don't know why he cried if he didn't like me..?)
Now we barely talk we just see eachother in highschool and our eyes meet from time to time but no words. We don't even go to the same classes but even though I still have feelings for him but since I've never confessed a guy or never cared about one as much as I care about him I can't get myself to talk. Should I confess? Does the mixed signals mean something? Idk
Don't you think if it hasn't happened yet, it is time to talk with him. tell him you have feelings for him and am interested in a possible relationship
Fears of rejection. Fears of not being good enough. You need to talk about how you feel towards him and how you feel like part of you is missing
YES. Absolutely confess to him your feelings. It’s understandable that you have fears about this. But it’s time to talk with him. Good luck