babies from different women

I'm 40+ and divorced my ex officially 3 years ago, but we see each other on and off. Our children are grown up.

I met the girl that "fits" me and she is coming to my place in a few months.

My ex knew that we are not getting back together and asked me to "give" her another baby. Now she is pregnant. I know that I will be with my new wife when the baby is born.

When I think about me not being able to be there when the baby is born, and when s/he grows - it sends my head spinning.

Not that I'm asking for advice. Merely airing my thoughts. I know it will work out, but right now I'm just scared...

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  • Of course you know that you didn't just give up the rights to that baby. Until your wife takes on a serious partner you may be require to give financial support. The whole situation might bother your new girl but life is complicated, isn't it?

    Best of luck!

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