babies from different women
I'm 40+ and divorced my ex officially 3 years ago, but we see each other on and off. Our children are grown up.
I met the girl that "fits" me and she is coming to my place in a few months.
My ex knew that we are not getting back together and asked me to "give" her another baby. Now she is pregnant. I know that I will be with my new wife when the baby is born.
When I think about me not being able to be there when the baby is born, and when s/he grows - it sends my head spinning.
Not that I'm asking for advice. Merely airing my thoughts. I know it will work out, but right now I'm just scared...