Dad is having a baby with his girlfriend

I don't want my dad to have a baby with his girlfriend, shes basically like a step mom to me. They had a baby before and It was still born. I wasent aware untill a week before the funeral. The current baby Is about to be due and he still hasent told me I saw on his girlfriends Facebook though. (Creepin) I feel like I mean nothing to him. I'm humiliated. Everyone in my family knows but me. How do you not tell your daughter that. I just wanna cry. My dad was in prison for 5 years of my life and after that he met his girlfriend. Im jealous of a baby because she's gonna have a relationship with him I never had. I don't know what to feel. It makes me feel like I dont want to be in his life anymore. I love him so much. But I think its gonna hurt to much to see him give love and Interact with a different kid. I'm not his only girl now. I'm 17 and I know I should be mature about this. I just don't know how to go about it.

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  • Stop being selfish and share your dad with the new baby. I know a couple that has 12 kids.I feel sorry for you but learn to share,he probably has enough love for you and the new baby. If you are now just learning that gf is pregnant,you are not close enough to dad.Find a way for all of you to get closer and be thankful he is out of jail.

  • Your feelings of resentment are totally justified. You should definitely tell him how you feel. He has no idea how this has impacted you. Give him a chance to step up. He may feel really guilty for not being there for you when you were little and just doesn't know how to fix it. And because you're older, maybe he thinks you don't need him as much. Not sure how often you two see one another or speak. But one thing is for sure, he's not a mind reader, sometimes you have to spell it out for him. Think of this new addition as a positive opportunity to strengthen your relationship with your dad, new step mom and new sibling.

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