paying the price
I have been married for 15 years - I make mos of the decisions and my wife would agree that, if one were to be selected i would be the "boss" in our house. My wife can be flighty at times and forget things do dumb things that cost us money and I get upset by it. I have even gone so far as to punish her on occasion with a little spanking. More fun than painful it would leave her a little pink and embarrassed but certainly never close to what we got growing up.
I screwed up and forgot to pay a credit card bill -exactly the kind of stuff she usually does. She got rally mad because we are applying for a mortgage right now and in this climate every little thing can hurt. She really yelled ( she never does) and was more mad than I've seen her. Finally she got quiet for a second and said "You know what? I'm going to spank you." She retrieved one of the paddles from that beach game where you bat the ball back and forth at the beach. There was no discussion I usually would convince her she deserved a spanking and never used anything on her - just my hand.. She just told me to take down my pants, we were home alone about 11:30 in the morning. When my pants were down she told me to take down my underwear. We were in the kitchen. then she told me to bend over and put my hands on the seat of the chair - like we used to get it in school. sge gave me 40 whacks with that paddle. It hurt like h*** !
The last part of my punishment is confessing this here.