I told my dad I went back to school

I told my dad I went back to school. His reaction was like "oh again" . I am 30 years old married and I still worry about what my dad has to say. I hate it, I am so depressed.
I also found out I am pregnant. I am petrified to tell my father, cause I feel that he thinks me and my husband are not ready...
I know I shouldnt care what he thinks....but I do. And it scares me...

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  • Take up masturbation.

    It helped me.

  • I agree with the first guy. You need to learn that although its nice to have others who are proud of you, you really need to improve your life for yourself. School is hard but you can do it so work your ass off and you'll get through it!!! When you graduate make a copy of your diploma. Frame and hang the original in your home. Frame and give the copy to your dad on Father's day, thanking him for his support!!!! Maybe he'll get the hint.

  • I think you are codependent on your father. I believe this is so because my wife was not only codependent on me, but her mother as well, and my wife is 33. What helped her was reading some books on codependency and how to break the thought process and how to become self reliant. There are plent of books at any bookstore and the library regarding this. You should browse through a couple and see if you fit the profile, which I think you do, and can work on correcting your mindset.

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