Infatuated with Ellen in CT

I have been infatuated and hot for a woman named Ellen from West Hartford Connecticut for 30 years now. I will soon be 43 and she is a year younger than me. She is a blogger and happily married with 3 kids. She went through a lot healthwise when she was younger, but made it through. But I just am bursting at the seams to contact her. I am no longer married. I don't know how an email or blog reply would go over, even if it was just a "hi" from out of nowhwere. Should I send a "hi" or something her way, knowing I have more feelings behind it?

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  • (I posted this) - reply to the previous poster, gosh, that's the last thing I want. I doubt there would be a broken family, she has been married for a long time. I would guess there would be a lot of discomfort and a rejection. I've given no hints up until now, bringing the issue up front now would likely go nowhere but negative in a variety of ways. I appreciate your help and candor.

  • There is no harm in saying hi unless you have other intentions. If she is happily married, don't impede on that. Before you go in, make sure you will be able to control your feelings around her, because even though you have been attracted to her for 30 years, there is a potential to have a broken family result of this, or even a friendship ruined if you try to take it too far.

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