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Pregnant; keep or abortion?
I had a bf of 4 yrs. ['sam'] we broke up &i was devastated. i went out w. the next guy ['tom'] i thought was good looking for as a rebound &to use to pass time by. he fell in love. but i still love my ex sam. im very close to sams family. very. only sams sister knows im 2months pregnant. &well he knows. so i broke up w. the ** that got me pregnant, tom. he got me pregnant on purpose. i told him i wasnt on birthcontrol &we didnt have a condom. great. he eventually told me he pregnanted me on purpose bc he thought i as the one for him. fxck. im 19. i can have a kid. im not patient. i know ill do my best to provide. but i still feel like a kid whos 15 &overwhelmed. how can i have a baby from tom who i dated for 3months &dont love.
i talked to sam &he would like to get back together but not me being pregnant by tom. i dont wanna have the abortion &have him think it was for him bc when i found out i thought abortion first.
but he sam also doesnt want me to abort.
someone tell me what to do.?????????????!!!!!!!!!!
i know what i do on earth ill have to answer to god still. if i abort could he ever forgive me?
my mom doesnt know about mee. few do. im catholic.
what to do....
I recommend abortion.
I can't respect your decision to make tom believe its his baby. Men tell the most lies but women tell the biggest lies.
Man lying: I was playing cards with the guys
Woman lying: Its your baby!!!
You have no choice.
Not being mean, but you'll have the baby because every person in your life will force that choice on you, no matter what is better for you.
My best wishes for you, and I hope you do what is best for YOU, not what a lot of sanctimonius people who aren't in the situation think.
My prayers are with you and your baby. As difficult as it may be for you I hope you choose to allow your baby to live its life. As far as the bf or baby's father is concerned- well, the character and integrity you show in this situation will be reflected in your choice there too.