My dad beats me.

i'm only ten and my dad does all that stuff 2 me... but i don't smoke crack or do marijuana

umm... u must have had BEAUTIFUL parents who always protected u from bad stuff or sumthing, this is reality... ppl r beaten all the time

HAHAHAHAH and HAHAHAHAHAH then HAHAHAHAH with a little HAHAHAHAHAHAH.i mean nobody is allowed to be treated like that.*LAUGHS*

omg call the cops because ur dad had issues!!!!! Never let anyone hit u like that and try to stay away from him!! make sure you keep strong hun(K)**

You think you have it bad? When I was a child my dad would actually push me down the stairs, and point his gun at me, saying "I'll kill you if you don't shut the ** up". Then when I was 14 I was ** by some person, and when I told my ** dad, he just laughed and said "you loser! ha!" I hated my ** up life, and he would actually punch me in the face. My mother when I was 8 said that she had enough, so she packed up her bags. Then when I asked her if I could go, she just said "no, you piece of **", so then I was left with my dad, who would ** me, and touch my ** a lot, which greatly disturbed me. Every night he would come home dead drunk and shoot holes in the ceiling with his gun, and then he and his friends would come and force me into ** with them. FINALLY when I was 18 I left, and because my dad had stolen my money, I couldn't go to college, and I still haven't. So I got a job and had to live with my friends for a while. After I had enough money, I got a loan for a house. Then my dad broke in one night and stole my stuff, then molested me until he was ready to leave. So I called the police, and they found him smoking weed with his drunk friends, and abusing a teenager's **. So we went to court, and he was drunk as always. When he was there with me. Then he just walked up to the judge, pulled down his pants, and ** the judge. He was sent to jail for life for:
•** of over 250 women
•Smoking pot and illegal drugs
•Abusing children
•Murder of my mom, after she had left
•Murder of many other people
•The ** of a classroom full of girls and a teacher
•Breaking many houses (including mine and many others)
•Thievery and the use of a gun to kill a person
•Breaking out a friend from prison
•Killing a federal officer.
•Leaking top secret government info he'd heard from a friend
to the press.

I'm actually pretty amazed he'd gotten away with all this, and no one called the police after they'd been **, or maybe the ** people were the ones who had been killed. So now I'm really happy, and my life is really great. So I
suggest just running away, and asking if your friends if you can sleep over (if their parents are nice). That's what I did several times when I was a kid, and my father always came to get me back. As a punishment, he would take my clothes off, and whip my ** until they would start bleeding. Then he would ** me.

Please don't laugh at me. If you do, you would be laughing at a person haunted by a horrible childhood.

Wll wat kind ov a dad was he??well parents can never be allways trusted..NO ONE CAN EVER BE ALLWAYS TRUSTED..THERE ARE SOME VERY GOOD PARENTS..but some parents abuse their children and WORSE..which is very wrong..very bad

Omfg he is gnna burn in ** for what he did to u i jst cnt believe that ur own father would do things like that his ** should be chopped off shoved down his throat and pour petrol on him and light him on fire that piece of ** dirt!!!!!!!!!!! deserves worse but i cnnot think of it right now

God bless America............thank ** I don't live there!!!

WTF are you talking about? This happens everywhere...and in some cases it's worse outside of the states.

Look, Anonymous, while your heart's in the right place, your ideas are simplistic. I'm not sure if you've ever been afraid to go home, but it's not a black-and-white issue of call the cops or live with it. And his father's intentions are irrelevant for now. One day, he might see that his dad meant well and be able to forgive him. But now, he needs to protect himself and understand the mistakes that are being made so he doesn't repeat them.

Original poster, seriously, unless you feel like he might kill you, hang in there. This isn't safe advice, but foster care isn't safe either. Learn his moods and how to avoid him. Appease him (let him feel like he wins) until you can get out of there. Pretend it's a really long chess game where you let him think he's going to intimidate you forever, but YOU ARE GOING TO WIN IN THE END.

HOWEVER, Dude, if he's currently molesting you, GET THE ** OUT. If you have a close friend's family or just family, go there. Actually, even if he's still just knocking you around, find one friend whose parents your dad is cool with and stay there as much as possible.

Stress about your grades and school. I am also in highschooland trust me if you stress about school you spend so much time away from school. My dad also treats me like i am a peice of **. I am a straight A student, vice president of the Freshmen and in other clubs. I dont date because if i did my dad would follow me and yell. So just try to stay away from home it works. Good luck! Hope to see you in the Marines.

hes angry and saidly taking out on u not right for him to do this.
but u got try not pass on what he has done to you for that to happen more to do then jsut say im not going to thats the begining
pray for you

This is really sad. I feel for you. You should be in a safe home where you feel loved and protected. And no one should be hitting you. For just one moment, I'm going to play devils advocate..meaning a lot of what you're venting about seems like life is so unfair. For starters, your 16 and completely dependent on your father. You're not an adult and by being a minor you must live by your dad's rules. As much as they **, they're in place to protect you. Like him checking your facebook page - ** like that. You know making sure you're not getting into trouble. He's a single father raising a son. He most likely loves and cares about you but has no idea how to show it. A lot of men are like that..not the hitting thing..but just have no idea how to deal with teenagers. And it sounds like your relationship is just disintegrating fast. So he gives you a ton of rules to follow and there are all these can't do this and can't do that - most likely making you crazy. Basically he's being a parent and a cop all in one. And he just doesn't understand you because he has no idea how to talk with you/relate to you. Right?
You're ** off because you want freedom. You want to drive, you want to wear your hair and express yourself..but he just doesn't get that. I feel for you. I think this situation is really self destructive for all parties. You're dad should never lay a hand on you. Period. You do have options. Talk to a guidance counselor at school, or call CPS (Child Protective Services) if you are in fear of your life and you most likely will be taken out of the home and placed into the foster care system or with relatives..and hope for the best that those will be safer places for you. But there will still be rules. And they could be even stricter then what your father is doing.
I do think you need to speak with someone and learn to express your feelings and your anger (about your mom, dad, life, love etc) so you can develop proper tools for dealing with this.Don't harm your dad, you definitely don't want to go to jail. Keep up your grades and hang in there. Be smart. Go to college or the marines..But go and get help. Good luck!

Ok, wow. ** reeeetard. You deserve to have the ** ** beat out if you. He obviously did not takeyou over his knee as a kid, he should have. He still should. You need a good ol' spanking, no **.

** off you little **, Hes getting abused by his own father, how is he a ** when his dad knocks him about ever very minute of everyday?!! His dad is the retarded one and quite frankly, YOU ARE AS WELL, saying the kid deserves it HE DID NOTHING WRONG!!!! YOU AND THIS GUY'S DAD ARE THE SCUM THAT PLAGUES THIS EARTH! Are you saying that in order to be a man, you have get beaten up continually by your old man,that's wrong to say that, you're just sick in head mate, I think you need to be thrown in the nearest loony bin and locked up with all those over weirdos for the rest of your miserable life. Yeah, that's what you are, you are a nerdy little insecure weak ** that feels the need to rub off his troubles on others, you are a bully and people like you are a symbol of everything that is wrong with humanity and nature itself!!! You're dad is probably a weak minded retarded gay ** (like yourself) that most likely beats you up and rapes you hard up the ** all day and all night. **, **, ** **, **, **, NERD, TROLL, EVIL **, **, YOU ARE ALL THOSE THINGS ROLLED INTO ONE! And, if your mum is a total opposite of your ** father (meaning she is a very kind caring person) then she must be absolutely ashamed of not only the monster of a man she married, but you as her son, who has turned into a complete **-head equal to your dad. Oh, and trust me when I say this, when you get carted off to prison for being the nasty ** spawn ** you are, there will be people 100 times as worse as you! Scary to imagine isn't it? But there are psychos in the world that just don't have any degree of humanity, in other words, they just don't give a flying ** about anybody. So, read this message and think about what you have said to this lad, if you are the type who bullies people through the internet to get a kick out of it, then you are a complete and utter saddo. YOU ARE NOTHING YOU PIECE OF DOG ** I BET IF YOU WERE KILLED NO DECENT PERSON WOULD GIVE FIVE HURRIED **! GO TO ** AND BURN THERE FOREVER WITH YOUR SON OF A ** FATHER WHO RAPES YOU UP YOUR **, AND IF YOU DIE, EVEN BETTER, HUMANITY DOESN'T NEED THE LIKES OF YOU, IT IS LITTLE SQUIRTS OF ** LIKE YOU WHO GIVE HUMANITY A BAD NAME!!!!!!!!! GO KILL YOURSELF YOU ** WEAK, WEEDY NERD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SEE YOU IN **!!!

Bt u should be very careful..if u hit him u shud have surity that he shouldnt hit u back..or u dont deserve jail

Take all that you have learned and better ONLY yourself. Your mom left, you dad **, its you now. Better YOU! keep your head up, get out when your 18 and proceed with a happy healthy life with wonderful friends and make your own family. Even though he is a cop, please look into going into protective child services right after he beats you and you have evidence.

Thank you. Really man, i know idk what I'm going to do. I feel like I should but what if he finds me or finds out before I get the chance. He would just beat me with in an inch of my life. It's **, idk I've tried to run away and I didn't get far. When he found me, I just know never to do it again.

Dude i was 18 before i was able to beat the ** out of the ** that abused me and my brothers our entire childhoods. The sight of him lying on the floor holding his face is one i will never forget. ON the plus side im 30 now and i have made it a point to never repeat the mistakes he made with me and my brothers with my own family. Though it seems like its forever now your teenage years will be a distant memory in no time. If you are set on joining the Marines do it becuse YOU want to and not becuse of him. And remember he has taught you how NOT to act towards others, make it your mission in life not to become him.

Thanks dude. Yeah I can't wait for that sight. It's keeping me going.
When he is down. I'll keep him down. I won't repeat what he was like to me to my kids. I just won't.

Hang in there, but don't derive pleasure from more violence. It's a way better feeling, a way more adult feeling, to smile confidently in the face of the ** that beat you than it is to literally beat him too.
The thing is that deriving that pleasure out of hurting him (and it would feel ** good), would teach your brain that hurting people feels good...which is, you know, how some of us got here. I know you say you won't go there, but once you feel that power and release, it's hard to stop.
Don't let him win by stooping to his dumbass level. Continue on with your life and be the best you can be. Also, in about 5 years, tell a couple of his cop-buddies about the beatings. I doubt he'll still get invited to poker night...

Also, please remember that it ALWAYS gets better. You will own your life as long as you don't let your memories own you. Hand in there, man - you'll make it through.

I agree with the last 2 comments. As a troublesome teen myself, now with adult children, being a teenager ** and you should hang in there get strong for yourself and leave asap. Good luck with the long hair in the marines though kiddo. I'm proof the last person is right. The universe does take care of ** like that.

** EVERYONE ** WHO LEFT A ** COMMENT. Listen kid, this is going to be the worst time of your life. Being a teenager **. But hang in there, get strong.. Not for him but for yourself. Don't even worry about beating his **, just show him by leaving as soon as possible, making a life for yourself and never talking to that peice of ** again. The universe will take care of his punk **. You're gonna be alright man, just hang in there. I wish you the best.

Thanks. I'm ** glad you feel that way. You don't know me **, you dont know **. No ** child or women should have there hands put on them. I deserve to be beat instead of punished? Thanks ** hole, fuxk yourself.

Woah ** sorry man last comment meant for the on above you!

No worries. You know, I'm actually shocked by how many people go OUT of their way to leave negative comments rather than putting effort into doing something good. It's a ** shame. This ** will only make you stronger, keep in mind however, that it's a sick stupid little circle and you have to work extra hard to make sure you don't repeat it and fall into his foot steps. What he's done is not okay.. Good luck :)

Tenage life duz not **...i mean its not necesary