Should i stay or should i go

Sorry if this a little long but i hope someone can take the time to help me out. So this boy Mike and I have been talking for a couple months now, at times he seems sketchy but not in the sense of him cheating on me, more like he's very on and off with me. I dont think he really cares about me alot in the way id like him to, but when he gets h**** im his go to girl and silly me just falls for it everytime because i like him alot. We have gotten into fights before though about us and he always tells me how much he likes me but i feel like he's never gonna ask me to be his girlfriend and make it more legit. When its me and him he's the best guy in the world to me but when were not with each other its all unknown and we barely talk at times. Recently his uncle past away and hes very emotional because it was the same cancer his dad died from, so ive been there for him offering him to go sledding or watch movies and he didnt answer me for awhile until one day he started saying sorry and that it wasnt me so now ive just been giving him space. So now i have no clue how much longer to wait for him i feel like ive been waiting for him for so long already despite the whole uncle issue and its so annoying. Its hard to explain everything breifly but i really dont know if i should wait even longer or if i should just move on because i feel like mike wouldnt really care if i did move on.

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  • Honestly..time to move on. I'm sure you have reasons why you like Mike, but he's not looking for a girlfriend. It's about s**. Like you said..you're his go to girl. He has no reason to lock it in with you. You're giving him exactly what he needs and there are no strings. Why bother with titles? If you're looking for a bf, go and find a guy who actually wants one and then next time don't give it away so quickly.

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