Not who I thought I was

I'm the other woman. He's 10 years older than me and I'm only 18. I didn't plan on falling for him, I only really wanted to f*** him and be his friend... but now I've fallen hard. And he's still with her. He says that he wants to end things with her but the situation is really complicated.

I'm an idiot.

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  • You are only an idiot if you continue this reletionship with him. He's in it for the s** believe me I am an older guy and that's all he wants you as a person are irrelevant but your body is what it's all about.

  • Thanks for the advice, and being honest about it. Aha, I've already kind of put a stop to it, but I haven't seen him in three weeks. Next week I'll be seeing him everyday and I guess I'll officially end things. Thank you.

  • I don't think you're an idiot. You have this thing figured out pretty well. What's complicated for him is how he's going to get through this without getting caught.

  • I'm kind of hoping that he's actually into me for more than just s**, like the below poster suggested. He made it seem like that was the case but I mean I'm 18, could we carry on with an actual relationship? We make good friends and lovers but I'm not so sure about the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing. Hmm. Thanks for the advice!

  • Sure, you could carry on a great relationship despite the age difference. Believe me, it bothers you a whole lot more than it bothers him. The problem is, the "complicated" thing with his wife comes down to he isn't letting go of her anytime soon. He still wants you for side action, though. Good luck.

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