I don't know what to feel, but I want to say it.

I'm raised Catholic.
I lost my virginity at 18(21 now), and I'm still with my boyfriend whom I lost it to. Generally, I guess I feel bad about committing pre-marital s**. I've never gotten pregnant, and we've been together for years. We're deeply in love, but I feel bad that I'm no longer a virgin. My parents would really freak out if they knew, but I feel that it's not necessary to tell them. My religion is making me feel terribly guilty.

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  • From what it sounds like you need to go to confession. I am also a very devoted Catholic and connfession is the right thing do to.

  • life is fun, have s**, m*********, watch p***, suck a d***.... just like the nuns and your priests.

  • You are speaking heresy do not listen.

  • Well, technically your religion isn't making you feel anything... What you did is making you feel guilty. Now, your religion is part of why you feel guilty, but it didn't do anything. It's not like the Pope showed up at your house screaming "HOW DARE YOU!?!"

  • OP here. loove this comment XD thanks for the reality check all :)

  • Your parents must be really stupid if they didn't guess!

  • You are 21, not a child. Start enjoying s** and ignore that Catholic guilt. Look at your spiritual leaders and how flawed so many of them are. Be a good person and you will have no need for that guilt.

  • You are speaking alot of heresy dont listen to it.

  • I was raised Catholic and I still struggle with guilt. I live in a way that I judge to be right and good. It doesn't always jive with the Catholic doctrine. I cannot control or give too much attention to the judgements others make.

  • Fortunately, you don't have to tell your parents everything.

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