Not a happy ending.

Recently i've broken up with my boyfriend of 2 years. He was my first love. We weren't just a couple; we were best friends.

We started out as friends but slowly it developed into love. At first it was amazing; we were so in love. Then it got bad. Something changed in him. He began to be extremely jealous and controlling. He wouldn't allow me to go out while he could go out all the time. He would tell me not to befriend certain people and avoid guys at all times. I resisted of course but he would get angry and ignore me for days. His anger scared me so much that eventually i would give in. I obeyed his every word but he would always find something i did wrong. Thats when he started swearing at me. Not only swearing but also saying hurtful things such as "You are worthless w****" or "F*** off, f*** yourself, I don't need you, you don't deserve me". He would go from being so nice and sweet and totally in love with me to a scary verbally abusive man. In the end, he broke up with me claiming he couldn't trust me because I had two guys following me on twitter.

I know he was bad for me. I just still want him back.

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  • I am exactly where you are.
    Ok this is weird , but how long has it been and how did you handle it ?

  • It will be hard, because you'll want to think about all the good times you had.
    Trust me, you don't want him back.
    It's going to be hard for a while, but someone that devalues your self worth and abuses you isn't worth it. It's dangerous and bad for you to stay in a relationship like that, and it's really not worth it.
    Because no matter what, people like that will try and make you feel guilty, because they want to have that control over you. A relationship thrives on trust, which is clearly something he doesn't have for you. So don't give him that satisfaction.

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