University jitters

I know it's quite cliche that a teenage girl would find it hard to talk to boys but lately I've been realising that its something else. Every single man/boy in my life has disappointed me and now I find that i can't trust men at all. I lost my virginity when I was drunk and every-time I think about it I want to cry. The thought of talking/trusting a boy makes me feel sick and I don't know what to do to fix it. My friends just think I'm shy around them but I'm not, in scared.


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  • I'm gonna be honest. I think your answer is in God. I don't actually usually just do this, but I really think it's true. People will fail you (especially men), social systems will fail you, but God will never fail you. He can make you whole again. He can see you as pure and full of joy again--even when you can't. He is a God of restoration.
    But what do I know, I only experienced this same thing.
    just make sure if you go after this line of reasoning, that you can separate the difference between people that come in the Name of God, and God Himself.

  • Your entitled to be afraid.

    Be yourself, hold on to the past but dont let it blind you..

    What happened to you wasnt ideal, but its done, its not every other mans fault

    Do your best to enjoy university, I wasted my years at uni...

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