Need to stop

I am in a loving long term marriage. I have two beautiful children. I work as a professional, I am an addictions counsellor. My struggle is that over the last 3 months I have cheated on my wife with escorts, seven times. I feel I am so done with this behavior, as I am disgusted in myself, and know that the feeling I searched for in these flings is unachievable.

Do I tell my partner? Do I just bury this in my psyche and move on? I am asking for honest and open advice......

Aug 21, 2011

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  • " I am asking for honest and open advice"

    You're in the wrong place.

  • Just saying.

  • Resign your job first

  • You're putting yourself in an emotional trap dude. You were wrong and you really don't deserve your wife's love and trust. You should tell her what you've done and why and seek counseling if you really have made up your mind to stop.

    She deserves to know the truth and you should give her the chance to let you know if she is willing to still love and stay with your cheating tail, in spite of your wrongs. What you're living is not love, its a sham.

  • agreed man bury it deep back there and don't hurt her... not fair to her or children

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