I had an afair with a Pastors Wife and it has hunted me
We really felt we were in love.
I told my wife and she forgave me but is still fill I not forgiven what can I do?

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  • You must forgive yourself as well. The Bible says, "He who does not forgive, cannot be forgiven." Understandably it's the most difficult task, but it's needed in order for you to find peace of mind.

  • Matthew 7:1-5 "Judge not, that ye be not judged.

    For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

    And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

    Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?

    Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye."

  • Your a w**** and your going to h***. Pray that god as mercy on your pitiful soul. End of story. Oh and If I were your wife I'd leave your hypocritical sorry ass.

  • Your wife forgave you, so if she can move on you should too.

    Soooooo, the pastor's wife, was she hot? Did you do her in the church. Did you send her home to the holy one leaking your load.

    It sounds so dangerous and exciting.

  • What you did is adultery. Fear God, believe in Jesus Christ. If you have done that then take up your shield of faith and your breastplate of righteousness. You can't fight a battle naked.

    Ephesians 6:14-17 "Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
    And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;
    Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
    And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:"

    After all that, forgive because you have been forgiven.

    Matthew 18:21-22 "Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven."

    I'm sorry if you were looking for a more specific answer but with the answers I just gave you any problem can be defeated

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