I want too have kids now but my fiancé won't even let us have s** without a condom until after our wedding in May. I've had a ton of friends having babies, who aren't married of anything and I'm overly jealous. What do I do? All my girls who have babies keep telling me to get pregnant now so our kids will be close in age but I can't get my fiancé to agree to it. I'm so frustrated right now. We both want kids but he's so set on waiting and it's killing me. I'm so into wanting babies that I think about it constantly, there's not a day that goes by that my mind doesn't get stuck on it for at least a little bit.