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Wife wants to start swinging
My wife Karen , out of the blue says she wants to start swinging. She tends to be very driven, and usually gets what she wants. I asked her why she wants to do that. She tells me she feels it will spice up our relationship, she thought our marriage was getting stale. If I didn’t agree to swinging, then she wants an open marriage. “If you don’t say yes to swinging I have someone I want to date on Friday, “
Karen has changed a lot over the last few years, she is a big time executive at her job, and makes a boat load of money. I am not sure how I even got her to date me let alone marry me. She works out almost everyday, which gives her a killer body, she still has big ** too, Go figure!
An open marriage wouldn’t work for me, not the lady-killer. While the way she is, and the way she looks, I am sure she would be ** every weekend.
I asked, “How is this going to work?”
Karen, “I have looked on ** sites, and I will pick out who we should **.” I am looking at a black man with a white wife right now. Karen :“I have always wanted a black man.” “I also might want to try the wife too! Since I have been Bi-curious for awhile now.”
I love her very much, not certain I am cut out this though. I also can’t afford to divorce her since my hours have been cut back at work. Should I try it for now, or let her have her open marriage?
I audio tape the wife beating off, its really hot!!!!!
Kick the ** out
Man she a big time executive? ** tell her no to the ** fuckery and if she wants to cheat take that curious ** for bread. I'm talking Alamony, child support get that bread bro.
Your marriage will be a lot better if you do. I was like you but I eventually changed and I loved watching her with another ma. I think you will too. She is not property but her own person. Wise up.
Watching me with other men is a major turn on for my husband.
Niki
Stick with the white meat and let her get so smoaked but I would never touch her again. but that's just me
You are such a racist ! For your knowledge most wives have experienced interracial ** either by swapping or swinging or affairs. My first experience was at a swingers club with my husband watching.
I swinging for a woman is like , she stills single ** who ever she wants with secured family future.
A woman have really a hard time being a ** & to find a true man who can accept her as she is. Cuz men when it comes to choose a wife the raise the bar higher for whom they will build house, life , future to, in addition to whom they will give half of their wealth to.
My friend don't listen to those who say if you love her then try it. You're the man eventually what ever your financial status is. You're the security no matter how strong the woman is. So don't tolerate any of your standards or life goals. For me , your wife already gone , just have the strength & ditch her. Find someone who can match your goals in life.
Living a lone is better than living with pain.
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If you love her then try it. You might find out that the combination of jealousy and aroticism makes you ** as **. I do think swinging is better, since you can both be there together when it happens. You don't have to participate. You could just watch her.
I like watching my husband giving another woman pleasure.
Niki
Basically she is telling you that she is not into ** with you. But she likes talking to you. Consider this. Mosten dont line swinging cause it is harmful to the relationship. She has already left you emotionally and you should be more happy if you saw it that way. See yourself as a happy dude who get a reason ( a female ticket to swinging ) even thpugh ypu are aingel and can attach to anyone you want as long as you do it for your own swef confidence. Once ypu have worked up that confidence get yourself a better lady. And be honest to her.
The best thing would be to just move put let her test her black fellows on her own and look for someone new who isnt a **. And if this new commitment is slutty then dont be patient. Show her that you are ready to leave if nessesary.
Go for it you'll at least find out if she is committed to you or that she is just trying to trade up.
No need she has gone
Let her take the black ** a d you give his wife a load of ** swinging is a real turn on try a black women to I would to s rew a black lady and make her take my **
Do it man it'll fix your marriage just don't worry bout the ** its just fun pretend its a sport and have fun and have a kid that way she will never leave you even if she ** other guys !
There is the problem you have to pretend its a sport... Its OK if the love have gone or morphed into bother sister love. It never helps the marriage at best it does not change it.
The way I see it is this way. You have a chance to be with another women, so you can do it with no strings attached. Or you can chose not to swing and pack up and leave. If it was me I would just hit the road and sue her for alimony for being unfaithful.
Lol! Oh man I feel bad for you son you got 99 problems and and your girl is one!
I have been curious for quite awhile about ** with a black man. My huband and I are separated and I know he would never go for an "open" relationship. Im not sure I would want one really. But,I'm kind of single,and been doing new things watching ** for the first time so that has increased my curiosity about being with a black man. I just could never tell him or anyone else about it. I'm band new here tonight and just talking outloud or writing outloud I guess. Men, please dont send rude notes,Im just curious for some reaction from anyone preferably women that may be going through similar situation. Stephanie
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Stephanie: It all depends on the type of husband you have. A lot of white men, including myself, would love to either allow their wife to date a black man, or to actually watch their wife with a black man. If I were your husband, I would say go for it. For the man I think it's a combination of jealousy and eroticism to watch their white wife being pounded by a well hung black stud. You just need the right match in a husband. That way both of you have the same interest.
Very well said, my wife enjoys really hard and willing ** to make her feel alive, and I love it too, seeing my wife enjoy really hard ** make our relationship truley strong and exciting.
Having ** with black men is such a turn on ! Watching them penetrate you & going in & out of you & the skin contrast is so ** & exciting.
Niki
Stephanie you are single ! Go for it ! Like most women you want to experience black ** so why not ? My suggestion is to go to a swingers club out of town where you are most likely unknown. Or hook up on line with a black guy who is out of town who has his own apt. condo or house. If he is married then hook up at a hotel or motel.
Any1 who wants 2 fukc n1ggers is an ape themselvs
Any1 who wants to fukc n1ggers is an ape themselvs
My best mate is black and I white... I have been hanging with him for years and sometimes we go to the clubs where the black guys go... After years they accepted me. I know the secrets. At the clubs there a some white women looking for black. The guys treat them like whores. The thing for these black guys is they try to get the white girls pregnant and boast about the number of babies they have with white wives.