Confuseddd.... :P

Im a girl & want to f*** a girl.Its really wrong, i know. But i just... like girls. But i dont.. Am i bisexual?? Thats against my religion & im confused. I go to h*** if im bi. If that wasnt true, i would be bi. F***. Im confused. Help?

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  • 1 cORINTHIANS 6:9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have s** with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

  • I discovered my husband with his best man on bed a week after our honeymoon; was so devastated and on the verge of leaving the marriage then. Throughout courtship for 2 years, I never suspected them. Hubby begged asked me to leave if I wanted to and bragged that he will not drop his "heartthrob". Well I was encouraged by a friend of mine not to leave but to use the "weapon of love" which does not fail. I began to fast and pray and ask God earnestly to restore the man I married; to heal my home. It took 2 long years of agony but what happened next was stupefying, it was the "heartthrob" that found Christ first and broke the relationship. Next, the heartbroken man had nobody to lean on but "his wife" and that she did. It was the grace of God in nursing the heartbroken husband that made him to experience salvation and the desire to "go through a man's butt" left.

    Many a time, we can achieve a lot through love than hate.

  • I know a scientist who used to be an atheist. his experience as a passenger in an airplane changed him. The pilot had given up, they had circled and almost exhausted the gas and were five minutes from crashing. The landing gear was not responding. All the while, the "religious people" were praying. He noted that Christians were more confident in their prayers to Jesus and overtime, even the other religious folks joined them in calling "Jesus, savior, save us" etc. last three minutes, the gear was out without the crew's manipulation and they landed safely. He began reading the New Testament from that day! He only wanted to know about Jesus. He read it in his phone (copy is online). Yet to attend church and folks do not know about him as a Church person. For years, he had wanted to quit drinking and smoking which had cost him friends and jobs; had even attended therapies. Said he figured that if Jesus could do all the miracles he read about and what happened in the plane that day, he could do that. And did he do it? Yes, he did! For two years he's been free.

  • [Assuming you are christian, I'm replying from a fellow christian viewpoint and am not trying to tell you that "all gays go to h*** no matter what" Try not to be offended with what I'm about to write. I am only trying to help from a christian veiwpoint] That being said, everyone battles with L*** in their lifetime. L*** for the same s** is a sin AS IS sexual immorality [s** before marriage and such]. We all know certain people are attractive whether it be looks or personality boy or girl BUT just because you feel l*** toward another doesn't mean you should act on it. It all comes down to your relationship with God. If you are having trouble following in his footsteps, pray for guidance, confess, and repent. If you don't care and let the sin consume you then you have the free will to do so. Just don't be surprised when you are judged accordingly.

  • Don't let religion dictate your life. If you like girls, be with girls. You can't run from who you are. If people don't like that, tough. Be YOU.

  • hey i am a lesbian and i am not ashamed. just be true to what you feel there is nothing wrong with that.

  • It's perfectly fine your not gonna go to h*** your just exploring your options and there's nothing against that in the bible

  • god can suck my d*** if you want to be a lesbian then you can there is nothing wrong with that

  • Isn't God supposed to be omniscient and omnipotent!?! If that really is the case then no matter who you choose to love he definitely isn't going to mind! Don't forget that the bible isn't necessarily God's word and go out and live your life the way you believe is right. It's more important just to keep in mind the most important parts of your religion's teachings like being considerate and accepting.

  • go smoke a d***!

  • yes its wrong, dont do it!

  • truth be told heaven and h*** don't exist now go crazy (how do i know jesus freak hasn't toldme my name yet that's how i know...)

  • I don't think it's really wrong. Girls are naturally more attractive, more desirable, so it's the normal thing to want women, even if you are one. I'd say, experiment if you get the chance. If you end up feeling super guilty and bad about it, you'll know it's not for you. But if it turns out great, you won't feel guilty anymore. Trust your gut feeling.

  • Wow, quite a few bigots "answering". Talk about hypocritical nonsense.

    If you're Judeo-Christian or what not and refer to the Bible whether it's Hebrew, Christian, Muslim (they vary slightly), you should probably know there is a ton of context missing, a lot of social context. The condemnation of certain sexual relationships often had to do with idol worship rather than simply loving someone of the same gender. But that kind of stuff didn't make it into the Bible because 1) the Bible was highly regional when written 2) it's old. Tt was specific to certain regions and peoples that aren't highly relevant anymore. That said, I'm not trying to discredit it or anything; you just need to understand not everything should or can be taken at face value.

    Also, a lot of the sexual condemnation was also related to l*** I believe. And the condemnation in general was primarily social, though driven by theocracy. Plus if you're Christian the Bible does state that Christ has paid any debt against us.

    In the end I'd say pursue love freely, even if you have to roll around in the hay a bit or if you end up with a woman or a man. LOVE has always been a good thing, something that's pretty much universally revered in and out of religion.

  • Yes, you will go to h***. No tap-dancing around the problem, read up on your religion. I assume you are a Muslim/Christian? Yes, you are definetly going to h*** then for this no matter what people tell you.

    People always say ''That's how you are and religion can't change that!'' That is false. Religion goes infront of everything, including what you want and do not want to do. It's your responseability to overcome the sort of l*** you have and stay away from it, because it is by all means against the holy book you worship, and you can't get away from this truth.

    But can ask yourself this: Is there any proof or evidence that shows that this religion is correct? Extreme claims such as religious stuff requires extreme evidence to be proven and believed in...are there any compelling evidence for it? Let me help you: NO THERE ISN'T. Stop living in the bronze/stone age and grow the f*** up and become an atheist.

    It's childish and ignorant to believe in stuff without evidence, like Santa Claus or the Flying Spaghetti monster. You probably got brainwashed by your parents, they made you believe in what you believe in right now, or someone else in your family. How could I Know that? Well, how else would someone believe in such lies?

    Hope life goes good for you regardless.

  • sorry but religion is stupid, love who you love... If you love girls then be with girls

  • Our conscience is our best guide. If you think something is wrong, do not do it. We have so many things we want to do in life but not everything is beneficial. We should not do anything that would make us feel guilty.

  • It's against my religionn too, but I'm bi and I'm proud. As long as your proud, you needn't have shame. You are what you are and no one, religion included, can change that. Stay strong!

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