I Hate My Step Father

My step father is the greatest p**** imaginable. He is a controlling freak who can't accept the fact that he's wrong. Ever. And if I bring up the point of him being wrong, he'll just rudely ask "Are you trying to pick a fight with me?" Even in front of my mom and brother. It p***** me off to no end. He always says that I argue with everybody, but does he actually see me argue with anybody but HIM? No! And he argues with everybody. Everybody!

And then, my biggest hate in life is hypocrisy. And guess what. He is the biggest hypocrite I know. I can't stand it. It makes me writhe in anger whenever he goes against his own word.

He also completely sucks at parenting. I mean, is absolutely awful. He takes the little tiny things that bother him, and only him, and make a HUGE deal out of it. (And here's another hit of hypocrisy. ARGHHH!!!) And then when I make even I slight deal out of something, he b****** and moans at me and everybody else. He was definately one of those people who were just NOT meant for being a father.

Y'know, I remember my mom asking my brother and I, over and over again, when the two of us were little and had met this man for the first time, if we liked him. The two of them had been dating for a little while, and my brother and I didn't really know him, but we didn't really like him. But we actually said that we liked him, and they continued dating. My brother and him started the fighting, going through his angsty teenage years, and the death of our real father actually hitting him. I hadn't realized it by then. Then he moved out after highschool, and I finally started hating my step father. My mother finally married this disgrace of a man in 2010. Now I am 17.

And I regret telling her that I didn't like this man. I regret telling her, get rid of this man. I wish he was gone. I hear them arguing all the time.

I remember my mother telling me this: She would actually die for her first husband, my father. She would only get hurt for this excuse of a man, the man I am ashamed of calling my step father.

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  • Sorry to point this out but; you are the one here that is speaking badly of him. And about hipocracy! How good of a parent are you? Have you ever even attampted it?

    What I see here is a very one sided story.
    You say "And if I bring up the point of him being wrong, he'll just rudely ask "Are you trying to pick a fight with me?-". I say that the act of you pointing out that he is wrong is actually a suggestion that you are trying to be right! That is actually an fight picking act on your part.

    You also say "He also completely sucks at parenting. I mean, is absolutely awful. He takes the little tiny things that bother him, and only him, and make a HUGE deal out of it". Yet here you are; the one making a huge deal of it! What was that it that you said about hipocracy?

    The title of this post is "I hate my my step father". I am sure he feels it from you too. How is it that you expect him to react to such hatered when all he has been trying to do is love and provide for you?

    And now here you are; faced with someone else willing to argue your hateful stance. And to answer your question of "but does he actually see me argue with anybody but HIM? ". Doesnt matter because you know that you actually do argue with people other than him. You just haven't accepted the fact that he is just as much human as you are.

  • Just because someone is an adult, doesn't mean they are mature. You guys were young and had no idea what saying yes to this guy really meant. Look towards the future, you'll be leaving for college soon. Maybe your relationship with this guy will change as you get older. Unfortunately, it will be your mom who will ultimately have to put up with him. But she knew what she was getting into when she married him. She'd rather be married then be by herself. Maybe she'll take the steps she needs to leave and find a better relationship. You need to take care of you. Don't let your step father's immature actions affect you. Just let it go. He's not worth it.

  • i'm terribly sorry about all the issues you have with your family... i wish i could help but i don't know how...

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