One of my best friends is pressuring me to do things that are not of my capability.... I want to yell at her and tell her that im not an over achiever like her. But I dont want to hurt our friendship. What should I do??

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  • then don't yell at her just let her know in your own way, show her you don't over achieve, or tell her straight up to just back off... I think she's pushing you to over achieve because she want's you to be near her all the time and is pushing for you and her to go to the same college and jobs so she doesn't have to be alone in those places not knowing anyone and fearing her lonelyness so just do this ok... tell her you don't want to give up your friendship but you can't handle what she's pushing you for and if she can't handle being alone in life maybe she should slow down a bit...

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