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Wife was **
This weekend after my wife and I returned from an evening at the bar she was in the mood to keep enjoying the night and I was tired from working all day. We had a small argument about it and I told her I was going to bed.
She stayed up and heard the neighbors next door having a party and I heard her leave.
Next thing, she comes in several hours later saying that "he ** me". She had passed out on the neighbor's couch (her girlfriend and her guy roomates live in the house). While she was asleep one of the guys came in and picked her up taking her to her room. She was so drunk and out of it that she thought it was me having ** with her. When she started to make out his face and saw that it was someone else she freaked out and started kicking and hitting him to get off. He held her down and told her he was going to finish. She kept fighting and he pulled a knife on her. Told her that if she told anyone he would kill her.
When she told me I went nuts and went to the guy's house. I banged on the door screaming at him. He didn't come out.
My wife will not press charges, she feels like it would be too hard to prove and that she doesn't want to be known throughout the neighborhood as a drunken **. She even spoke to a detective about it and he told her it would be a long difficult road to get him convicted. I am a very well known business person in the community so me going over there and fighting him or doing anything illegal would end in my life being ruined.
Our marriage is falling apart. We haven't had ** since, who knows if he gave her something. Who knows if she would have flashbacks while we are having **.
She has fallen into a deep depression and our world is falling apart. The ** lives right next door and there is nothing we can do about it. We are in our dream home but due to some financial stuff last year I would not be able to get a loan to move somewhere else.
The rage I have for the guy grows daily but I know that anything done to him will be traced right back to me. She is losing her job because she is too depressed to go into work, which leaves her at the house to go through a living ** of her own as the guy drives by.
Ya ur a ** no wonder why your wife is depressed go kick that mans ** and then ** him show him what he did to ur wife an eye for eye
You guys are kidding, right? Murder is 25 TO LIFE. NOT 2-5 YEARS. STUDY THE LAW.
For a white man it can be nothing
Doesn’t it get tired being a victim of everything?
Even if you black u can't do **
Ps from my previous comment: I would happily commit gennocide, clean half of the world right off to avenge or help my wife. And u are scared of 2 to 5 years of prison.
So basically u are a coward that would rather have the guy who ** and defiled ur wife be laugthing at ur face than simply kill him and do 2 to 5 years in prison? u deserve to be left, weakling trash.
Tell her the only way you can both get over it is if you get to watch them have ** again. She can invite him over and tell him you’re out of town for the weekend. Have her do him where you can watch, in hiding or on webcam and make sure you record it on video. Make sure you can hear what they say while they’re doing it. If she can get him to say he’s glad he ** her then you’ll know she was telling the truth and you’ll have his confession if you decide to use it.
You’ll be turned on from watching your wife ** and she’ll snap out of her depression. Your ** life will be better than ever.
** is **. The marriage can always be saved. Get a counselor to help get her control back. There are therapists that can help you to the point where she'll be willing to have ** again. And know that this man can be called out and identified on social media. My prayers are with you and my prayers are very strong, always being answered. Never leave her no matter what. Fo not let the ** win. The most powerful prayer you can also have for the marriage is asked Jesus to make it right in your spirit and her spirit. He will avenge you and restore her.
** therapist hence, the ** (therapist)(the **)
My wife told me that burglars broke into her office when only she and her boss were in, made them undress to their underwear and locked them up in a meeting room.
My wife passed drunk out at a party years ago. Guy who owned the house and his buddies ** her. She woke up in his bed the next day naked and sore. She sat down and told me a few weeks later.
I told her if she didn't want to get ** by strange guys not to get drunk and pass out at a party.
Lesson learned.
She wasn’t ** dude. She was drunk and cheated on you.
People like you make it easy for these animals to get away with what they did.
People like you make it okay for there to be a double standard and her to get away with whatever she wants. You get in a car and kill a family of 5 it is your fault if you go next door and act like a ** it is your fault.
She lives next door but didn't walk home to sleep with her husband
My wife is muslim and got ** by black gang in chicago. the catch was as they took turns with her they made her ride them
Did she enjoy it?
Which one was the daddy of the baby
Has she been back to them?
Ive been there. Life carries on, at the end of the day ** happens! If the person youre close to has ** with someone else then it was either A/Drunk B/ An experiment or C/Theyre unhappy in the present arrangement!
Examine yr life and wants! x
Get over it, she got **, I hope she enjoyed it, tell her not to go to party's without you unless she wants to get ** by a friend or stranger.
And if you let her go to party's without you, where there will be alcohol or drugs don't ** when she comes home full of ** from one or more guys.
It was my husband who ** me on January 30th 2013, as I pleaded with him that ** did not have to be in anger, we could talk about why the last 31 years happened the way they had. Why his own defiance in the community kept me from having a ** life in our marriage.< about how his own depression and lack of cooperation let him lose his immune system that caused his own body to let him aquire MRSA in his spine. That the last 31 years of defiance caused him to not take a vacation or time off work was his own fault for not trying to work out times with other5s and maybe he would have liked the time in mid winter we tried to get him to take. And use his personal time to replace the holidays we had to make him work.
I said I had promised his father that evening to go to a dinner event with him, my husbands mother and his fathers best friend, (A City County official). I Pleaded with him to just pick a place in four hours to meet with us where we could work out a timetable and conditions that would allow him into things he had been left out of.
The ** was not simply about **, It was a part of his revolt of the last 12 years He had left people badly hurt, families ruined, Even our church deacons Suicide was attributed to my husband for the very public way he discredited him in Front of his wife and congregation on Christmas day 2003 when my husband left pictures of him going into a motel with another woman on his Church secretary wife's chair when he put a slug gun under his chin and pushed the Trigger two years later. He had been removed from his church position. He had not seen his three children in three years, He was drinking and using crack band he had his last disciplinary layoff of thirty days in October and he was going to be terminated that Christmas down week. The way my husband ruined his life for making my husband work the 23 Christmas in a row since our wedding was in my and his fathers estimation uncalled for.
Wtf
Until it happens to you you'll never understand how awful s*** shaming is.
I agree but she was wrong to go in the first place alone, Marriage is about partnerships and being with each other if you can't do that stay single plain and simple.
Exactly. This is precisely why it’s hard to call it **. Nobody knows. Usually isn’t in fact. Just drunk ppl making bad choices. Well that’s the oldest story on earth.
Dont drink alcohol
I'm sorry but part of her story doesn't add up. This guy is having ** with your wife and she starts to struggle. OK. He Pulls Out a Knife???
From where? He's on top and busy having ** - so did he get off then get the knife? Did he say just a minute, then pull a knife from his pockets either around his ankles or on the floor, open the knife - then say where were we?
My point is How did he suddenly have a knife.
I think your wife had regrets AFTER she had drunken ** and made her story fit her being a victim instead of a cheat.
Bro he ** your wife. he was inside her... a place where only you have the right to be in he used your wife like an object for pleasure. make him pay... whether it be physically, emotionally or mentally. you could confront him and have him say sorry to your wife or just a way to catch him alone and beat the ** out of him because honestly having your wife ** is something no man should go through.
This is ** and nothing else. she may have been drinking but was passed out and unable to consent to anything when he took into another room to ** her. she came to enough to realize what was happening and said stop and tried kicking him and he pulled out a knife threatened her and finished. he is a scumbag and needs to be off the streets so he can't do this to someone else. Press charges against him and then sue his ** off for "lack of consortion" meaning his actions prevent you from being intimate with your wife. Be there for her and always reassure her it wasn't her fault.