I never should have told my wife I love being spanked
I made the mistake of telling my wife that I loved being spanked. Now whenever we have an argument, she pulls me over her knees and spanks me as hard as she can until I say I'm sorry even if the argument was her fault. The other night one of my wife's friends, who I hate, was over. I got into an argument with her and my wife pulled me over her knees and spanked me in front of her friend. Then she made me lay over her friend's knees so she could spank me too. It hurt. She is a big woman and can spank hard as anything and I could tell she loved doing it. My wife has threatened to have her friend come over twice a week to spank me because her friend wants to spank me some more. I hope my wife doesn't let her. I hate it.
Tell her "i kind of have this fantasy where im being spanked..." grab the belt, the hairbrush and the bath brush, put them on the table, come back completely naked with the paddle in hand and continue by saying ".... ive been really naughty lately, i need to be punished and i was wondering if you could...use this on me."
Your girl should be grateful for such honest coemmunication. And if you ask her to spank you then she should spank you and not hold back.
I told my wife i was spanked often as a boy for wetting my pants.
She said naughty boys needed to be spanked. I asked her if she would spank me if i was a naughty boy. She asked what naughty thing would i do. I answered her by standing in front of her and wetting my pants. Big wet spot in front, wet steaks down each leg, yellow puddle on the floor. She pulled my wet pants down, bent over the counter took my belt and gave me many swats. In the days that came and until today i wet my pants. I have been spanked by wife, neighbor lady, sister in law, mother inlaw. I have been taken to my wifes uncle s farm and he has taken me out to his wood shed for punishment bar bottom paddling. I deserve it and need it.
A lot of men secretly desire this. For as long as I can remember, I've always wanted my wife to invite her girlfriends to spank me. If you happen to be one of the lucky guys that gets spanked by your wife's female friends, consider yourself blessed.
Merry Christmas everyone!
If you don't want your wife and her friend to spank you, then they can spank me, I LOVE IT!!!
I'll probably spank them too, if they like it and have cute **! <3 <3
Lucky you! I would love to trade places with you.
I wouldn't get too concerned about your wife's threat to have her friend over. If it does happen, consider you've won the lottery!
Boy, is that the truth!!! I can't even get my wife to spank me when we're alone!!!
Exactly! I think he obviously does enjoy it...what man wouldn't enjoy something ** like that, especially with 2 women?? (if of course they are morally ok with it as a married cpl and don't count it as adulterous- which seems to be the case here- I wouldn't be, but that's just me).
He writes it like he's the victim but that's obviously bc he enjoys being masochistic and being dominated or disciplined by authoritative women- that's ok as it's a common fetish, tho a lotta dudes don't like to admit it...but this may be more of a fantasy of his than actual reality the way his post is written...
I think you are very lucky. My wife spanks me also with her rubber slipper when i ask for it but she doesnt like it much. My mother used to spank me much better than my wife does now.
I agree. You are being VERY lucky.
Yeah, a little TOO lucky...did this even happen or is it just all fantasy?
My mother was a specialist in spanking. She used hand for slaps and slipper on my bare bottom and inner thighs. I am lucky because i trained my wife to spank me like my mother did. She spanks me very often with the slipper, or her hand most of the times on my iinner thighs and i always enjoy it.
Lucky you! I would love it. I finally got my wife to slipper me today. I loved it, but then she stopped and said she was disgusted.
Your only option is to get used to it because they'll do it pretty regularly. Soon they'll try a belt or a paddle.
I'm sure if you resisted, you could likely avoid these situations. You are either willingly submitting or, and I'm sure this is the case, writing your fantasies out.
My first spanking came several years ago. It was my birthday and my mother in law came for dinner. After dinner we sat around having wine and talking. Suddenly my mother in law ask if I was going to get a birthday spanking. Karen said she had never done that. Her mother said time you learn. They had me bend over the couch. Karen decided to take my pants down. She gave her mother a hairbrush and I got 36 whacks. Then she told Karen to try, only this time she pulled my underpants down. It was humiliating.
Now usually when her mother is over one will suggest I be spanked. Bits always bare now. Corner time is more humiliating than the spankings.
That sounds like an incredibly wonderful start. Personally I would want it to be much more intense with a belt and at least once a month and leave deep marks stop all ** with me and take on a few friends with benefits. i should welcome in our and thank him for coming and making my wife happy. If fail to excitement and sincere gratitude her should beat me with the belt for at least five smacks after "I start crying like a little girl then clean her up .
When my girl friend and I are kissng, I pull her ** down and spank her keister. This seems to arouse her to no end
Corner time is the most important part of a spanking. A well spanked husband or wife makes a marriage work better when both are of the same mind
My wife spanks me with a girlfriend present. I am always across one of their laps wearing ** which get pulled down during the spanking. They've done this for almost two years and it's still embarrassing
My wife spanks me mostly for fun with her girlfriends. I'm told to strip to ** and lay across one of the woman's knees. It's both humiliating and exciting with ** on or off. The only thing I don't like is my wife lets one of her friends put something in me. Some times it's a thermometer before a spanking or an enema hose or a ** that she turns on and off. I complained to my wife but she Said the girls can do as they want. So take it or I will suggest a real enema to them for your embarrassment
Rigggghhhhht.....next thing you're gonna tell me is that you're from Neptune...
Though titillating, I find this hard to believe- sounds more like a schoolboy fantasy than reality...
**!
Be a man, not a mouse. Stand up to your lady calmly, respectfully, but very firmly. Cause that **'s kind of crazy.
Oh plz, get a clue...it's obviously being done in an ** sense and he enjoys it, he just wrote it covertly like he's the victim, but he enjoys being masochistic... you're taking it too literally...
Though I don't get what's so enjoyable about the physical pain aspect of it, maybe some ppl get a high on the idea of being disciplined and dominated in an ** sense during the spanking...but anyways, I don't think it's THAT crazy compared to other fetishes u hear about- what about "a$s worship", "facesitting" and **? What about **, cuckolding, ** and stuff involving bodily fluids like in those p*rn ad gifs???- now that sh** is TRULY crazy and insane...even warped- so much so that it makes spanking look almost religious compared to it...
Maybe but different strokes for different folks. What goes on in ones relationship is the business of them and partner.
Fantasy and reality don't always mesh. Open, honest communication is the key. If you want some parameters then tell her what you want them to be. You like being spanked but only under these conditions or never under these conditions. If your wife already has another spanking you then before too long you will be paddled to tears, tied and bound, others spanking you and maybe doing more. If you can't talk this out with your wife then this issue is well beyond a spanking.