Wanting White Hispanic or Asian Wife
I am in my late 40s, fairly well educated and I believe a pretty good human being. I have 4 healthy kids with two African American mothers. Two daughters are in college and two toddlers are still at home. The relationships with the mothers were bad and failed because I did a lousy job in selecting the women.
In my life, I have dated women of different ethnicities. I am not racist or the clichéd jungle fever types. I have finally decided that I want to seriously date and marry a decent looking, loving and educated White, Hispanic or Asian lady in her 30s or 40s. I want to have 1 or 2 kids with her, despite my age. This is in no way putting down black women or any other ethnicity.
The problem is, all I find are women who want nothing but s**(because their kids are grown and they want none)or who try to discourage me from having any more kids because I am older or have lots of kids. Well, I know all that; but I still want a stable loving family of my dreams. People live longer now and I want to raise kids with their mother to adulthood in the same house. I have never done that, though I was a single dad to my daughters. I am dedicated to my sons now but they are growing in two different households.
I have spent a great deal of time in reputable dating sites with women who say they want good husbands and all that. I have replied to thousands of them over the years but I have not been able to find one meeting my average standards. I am not even that picky! I have used almost any conceivable method of finding a mate one can think of, but I have failed to succeed. My friends, both men and women, say that I am too laid back and need to be more controlling. That I don’t want. I have also come to realize that most women lie quite a bit. It’s so discouraging. I just had to get this off my chest today.