Wanting White Hispanic or Asian Wife

I am in my late 40s, fairly well educated and I believe a pretty good human being. I have 4 healthy kids with two African American mothers. Two daughters are in college and two toddlers are still at home. The relationships with the mothers were bad and failed because I did a lousy job in selecting the women.
In my life, I have dated women of different ethnicities. I am not racist or the clichéd jungle fever types. I have finally decided that I want to seriously date and marry a decent looking, loving and educated White, Hispanic or Asian lady in her 30s or 40s. I want to have 1 or 2 kids with her, despite my age. This is in no way putting down black women or any other ethnicity.
The problem is, all I find are women who want nothing but s**(because their kids are grown and they want none)or who try to discourage me from having any more kids because I am older or have lots of kids. Well, I know all that; but I still want a stable loving family of my dreams. People live longer now and I want to raise kids with their mother to adulthood in the same house. I have never done that, though I was a single dad to my daughters. I am dedicated to my sons now but they are growing in two different households.
I have spent a great deal of time in reputable dating sites with women who say they want good husbands and all that. I have replied to thousands of them over the years but I have not been able to find one meeting my average standards. I am not even that picky! I have used almost any conceivable method of finding a mate one can think of, but I have failed to succeed. My friends, both men and women, say that I am too laid back and need to be more controlling. That I don’t want. I have also come to realize that most women lie quite a bit. It’s so discouraging. I just had to get this off my chest today.


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  • When you're in a relationship with someone over the age of 30 there is going to be a certain amount of baggage. Everyone has things from past relationships that impact who they are and shape their view of relationships.

    You my friend come with a 7-piece set of American Tourister. Maybe you can't see it, but sounds like the women you're meeting can.

  • What do you need more children for? Jesus, haven't you had enough already? And yes you are picky, if you go through "thousands" of women and can find no one. Maybe you can't find anyone else because you're a conceited j***?

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