Tired of being that "guy"
This happened years ago and I can't let it go...
My wife (then girlfriend) cheated on me early into our relationship and to this day, the emotions about that time in my life have been eating away at me. Everyday there is a steady feeling of erosion.
At the time we hashed it out, she apologized, promised that it wouldn't happen again.
Recently, she made a comment about what she would have done, if we switched positions in that situation. She claimed that she would have broken up with me. Cut & dry.
That really cut...and after telling her that..she could careless about how I felt about her opinion.
I confess...that I started to hate her when I found myself at a doctors office, asking for a blood test (screening for STD's/HIV), my hate increased when during our cooling off period-she continued to make herself available to the other person, my level of hate increased when (after years of this event happening) I am learning new details about it. And to top it off, she can tell me with a straight face, that I should have broken up with her..but she loves me?