My hearts Breaking..

So hi, I don't really know what to say here.. But I need some help.. I just don't know what to do anymore. So my ex-girlfriend broke up about six months ago. And I thought I was over her and everything.. But recently ive been missing her beyond belief, I miss her voice, I miss her laugh, I miss her eyes, I miss her lips.. But as of now she has a new boyfriend and shes extremely happy and I'm happy for her of course. (This isn't a post about trying to get her back by the way.) Anyways yeah I'm happy for her and we're still good friends but recently it's been really really h****** me, I cant even see a picture of her on Facebook with out me start to tear up. I cant help it. I just don't know how to deal with it. I just keep replaying things in my head and the moment when we broke up and it just keeps breaking my heart, over and, over and, over again.. I just wanted some advice on how to get it to stop..

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  • Son, you're what - a teenager? You can't expect to only be with one person from the age of 15. Sure, some people do it, but that's a very small percentage of people. It's just not realistic. I suggest you crack open a book once in a while; might help with the terrible grammar. AND, will take your mind off things. Win-win!

  • I apologize for my grammar, I wasn't paying attention. And I'm an adult not a teenager.

  • Okay, young adult then. But it's the same logic. You are still young. Look, if one person wants to break up - you break up. You cannot change their mind. People always try, and it almost never works. Let yourself dwell on it for a day, and then make a point to move on. Actually your English is not too bad. I bet you are good at lots of things, and you just need to pursue them right now more than ever. Time heals all, and keeping yourself busy with things you like is the best way.

  • Thank you very much. I'll take your advice to heart.

  • I'm glad! Heartbreak sucks, but it can inspire you to create something incredible. (I work in the arts... see it all the time)

    Good luck, and everything will be okay.

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