I have been in a relationship for a little under two years, with a woman who i love. But some of the things she has done makes me question if she is faithful. About a year ago I discovered that she had been flirting with several other guys over Facebook, and had intended to meet up with him. when i confronted her lying was her first instinct, she later admitted. After that we both agreed that we wouldn't communicate to other s**'s via face book and text. Further in the relationship we were clubbing and she refused to dance with me, because of shyness. Later in the night she was on the stage getting spanked with a paddle. And finally about two weeks ago i had noticed a number written in her notepad she quickly stated "that's a girlfriend number from work" without me saying anything. I investigated. when i asked her about the friend she said that she was her best friend at work and was the only person who got her sense of humor. I then asked her if it was a man or woman, and she lied and said women. I confronted her and she whisked together another story. What should i do? Am I wrong for not trusting her?