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Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
I had encouraged my daughter to date black men, and even introduced her to a few and arranged dates. But it made her father very uneasy (read: "embarrassed"), and he told her that he wouldn't pay for a wedding to a black man. She never was really close to marrying any of the black males she dated, but with that added disincentive (perhaps), she only ever got serious about one guy and he was white. They've been married almost four years, and he knows NOTHING of her having dated any blacks before they met. I told her I thought she should tell him before the wedding, but she told me she knew that "dad doesn't know about your black hunger, so why should I be the one to confess?" The reasoning may be a little flimsy, but I'm not - as you well know - in a position to debate the point. I don't know at first hand if she's been with any black men since the wedding, but she is SOOOOOO her mother's child that it wouldn't surprise me at all. In addition, I should mention that she became both physically mature and very sexual at a VERY young age (nothing we could do to stop that), and that even in high school she dated several married men and handled those arrangements with remarkable aplomb: so, her attitudes about marital fidelity are very "evolved", to put it mildly, though her husband has no idea about that, either. I actually thought you might be wondering about whether or not she and I had ever been had by the same man; not together but at different times. The answer is no, at least not yet. :) And the reason I thought that is that you strike me as being the kind of sophisticated and very cool and elegant black male who has had relationships with many mothers and daughters, and have likely also pulled off the same-time same-bed magic. I mean, JESUS, baby, if you are routinely ** your daughters' friends (an accomplishment that I just LOVE), it seems likely that you're ** the lucky moms, too. Oh, Christ......what a ** MAN you are!!!!
I have never had ** with a pregnant woman other than my two kids moms. Doing mother and daughter and mom or sisters or cousin is fun.Seems like you tried to show your daughter an unbiased life by raising her to ditch racial biases early in life.If you were any closer to me,I would try and take you and daughter to lunch:).Most mothers have quite an influence over their daughters.I was shocked to read an update post by one guy here(its way deep in the bottom somewhere)that his married daughter left or is leaving her hubby to move in with mom and mom's black lover,mostly because mom tells daughter that black ** is all that. If you look you will find his posts-very interesting. I have had very amazing conversations with folks here.I am always disappointed when they disappear and never update us on whats going on in their lives but always happy whenever I get an update.Have you tried to hook your hubby up with a black woman to get him to loosen up or get introduced to a diverse lifestyle?
I just knew you had done mother-daughter combos before! That is so thoroughly ** and wonderful, I can't even describe it to you. I will admit that, when I was fixing my daughter up on dates with black men, I secretly harbored the dark fantasy (which I never shared with her) that one of them might wind up servicing both of us, though my fantasies never reached the level of him doing us both at the same time, like you've done. I am so impressed that you have done that, God so impressed!! I read the postings you referred to, and I understood the man to be extremely upset about the situation you described with his ex-wife (and did you notice, he always refers to her as "my wife", and never as his ex?? Is this denial, or what??) and daughter, but I have to also admit to you: I thought that situation was hotter than fresh **. JESUS! I know he was distraught over it, but think of that mother and daughter!!! Both being cared for by one black male! Both still very capable of bearing children!! And both wild for that one black ** AND ALL THAT ** ** (I'm assuming the virtual certainty that the daughter went to "the dark side")!!! I am just so happy for both of them that I'm beside myself. As for loosening up my husband, that's not a possibility: I tried for years, but he never showed even the slightest inclination toward what you and I would call "fun". Twenty years ago, I had a girlfriend who was deeply involved in the ** lifestyle who basically threw herself at him to have a **, and he declined. What can I say? "White Christian Republican", is all you need to know. LOL. :)
So tell me how the black guy(s) were able to ** you and your daughter. How did she get hooked on married men, so young?
No, they never did that, so very sad to say. I just had all these incredibly filthy fantasies about it, especially with one particular black man she dated during part of her last year of high school and first year of college. He was super hung and super rich, and he was so very much in love with her. He wasn't one of the ones I introduced her to, but she met him through a guy I had set her up with. He was married (to a black lady) but had outside interests, one of which was my daughter. After just a few months, he asked her to be his mistress.....permanently. He said he would provide her a condo, clothes and a car, but she would have to stop seeing the other men she was seeing at the time and the couldn't ever start dating anyone else. He also wanted a separate secret family with her, to start in three years after that, once the last of his children were out of his house. She considered it seriously, and I wanted it for her, but she said she wanted more stability for her children and that she didn't feel like she ought to have to share a man with any other woman, no matter how incredibly big his ** was and no matter how much money he had or would spend on her. As for older guys, she quickly tired of guys her own age, and she moved on to adult males and then, without my encouraging her in any way, she moved on to the ones who were married. She was discreet, of course (that is very much in her nature), and most of her friends had no idea at all what she was doing, but she discussed it with me on occasion, and asked for advice about different types of affairs and how to deal with a difficult lover here or there. She didn't date married men exclusively, but she developed a real taste for adultery. As I say, she became both physically and intellectually mature at a very young age, and her sexuality was very advanced, nearly from the beginning. That made her a wonderful companion for ALL adult men, and a sort of fantasy camp for the married ones.
Waoooo! thats amazing...so daughter is just like mom:).So did you get a hold of that married black guy?What is the general racial composition of the city you live in?