Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

I have actually lost four girls that way, even though my guy friends only know about two but that's bad enough. **, the first one was bad enough on its own. I'm always "that guy" in the group, the one who can't keep his girlfriends off the black **. The girl I dated my senior year of high school and three years in college met this black guy in a bar one night while she was out with sorority sisters and got drunk (she said) and went home with him. She says it was just supposed to be a one-night thing, so she says. But then she went back for more the next night and then got hooked on how big he was and how much ** he shot inside her, she said she just couldn't stop going back because it was so different and so good. The next year I started dating this other girl in her same sorority and after like 2 months she broke it off and started dating another black dude. She didn't explain but I didn't think she needed to explain. Before the second girl, my friends sort of felt sorry for me, because losing Nicolette was devastating to me (she was the first girl, and we were also engaged). But when it happened with her sorority sister, I became a big ** joke. I would ask a girl out and my friends would start a pool on how long it would be before the new girl was ** black **, or they would say that I was driving all the white women over to the black side of town and dropping them off for service. It was horrible. I didn't date for a while, but when I did, I found out that one girl had always been dating blacks and just kept on doing that while we were going out, and the fourth one heard about my history (not from me) and decided she would try it out. Now she ONLY dates black men, and all older than me, and mostly married. You can't believe how bad it hurts to be the joke of the group, and they don't even know how bad it actually is (I've lied ever since about who I date, and what happens with them, and I don't bring the girls around).

Man,I feel for you.I am not even sure what to tell you to console or sooth your pain.maybe just start dating black girls; for new experiences.

I didn't mean to seem to be whining, or like I was looking for sympathy; I was just answering. You seem like your pretty cool, so I guess I would just tell you that from my perspective (24swm) most girls in college and just out seem pretty eager to hook it with black dudes, and two of the four I mentioned have gotten pregnant by them. The third girl got pregnant but had a miscarriage, then got pregnant again and had the baby, and the first one, my fiancée, has a child with her man and they all live together. They aren't married, which makes her parents crazy, but I think she likes making them crazy. Anyhow, I think somebody like you would definitely do well, and would probably get what you are wishing for, if you dated girls in college or in grad school or just finished their degrees: they all seem to love the black meat for sure. And I don't just mean that they prefer black **, I mean they ** LOVE them all. Thanks for the suggestion about black women: there is an older married black lady I started working with in my graduate research program this summer that flirts a lot and I've stayed away because she's married, but I admit that I find her very ** (great, great **) and I have even fantasized about how hot she would be in a relationship.

24 and in grad school,thats awesome!Despite the fact that women have given you a hard time lately,you are young and once done with that program, you will get a kool job with awesome women around and you can pick whomever you desire. But I cannot believe you are avoiding a married black woman who wants your single white **. That is absolutely wrong and unfair both to you and her.Please,I think you need to reconsider your stand and give this woman what she so badly deserves;she will thank and respect you for it.Since all these black guys are taking away white girls from you,sort of revenge and reward yourself with an older black woman. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush! I dated women in college, as an undergrad, and it was awesome.I was young and so were they.I have three grad schools, graduated from two in the evening programs, and about to graduate from one of the two with a Sequential Masters( am actually supposed to be working on a research paper right now too).I have not been fortunate to date fellow grad students.My only consolation is that my current gf has a masters-I always tease her that even her ** is educated,lol.You must live in a city with a punch fertile white women-I may need to relocate there to set up base. I did not view your response as whining or seeking sympathy.Having lost women to other men in my life,I can certainly empathize with you.