Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

The friend who married my ex was a good friend for years,we went to same high school and same community college and we even lived together off campus and in that building is where I met the woman he married. She was a white girl from the farms and had not lived long in the city when I met her.She was a year older than I and extremely nice to me and a good woman.At the time,she had one bi-racial son from an ex bf. I was forced to break up with her because I made another girl pregnant.I decided that I had to take care of the woman carrying my baby and it was one of the hardest decisions I had to make in my 20s. It was after we broke up that my friend and the lady hooked up,got married and moved to farmland for some time.The relationship later ended,so did mine with the mother of my kids.They never had kids. I believe that I threw away one of the best possible relationships for me.My friend and I are not that close anymore,we have grown older,live in two different states,etc. It was weird being around them but,I comforted myself that she and I were broken up when they started **.I have been unable to find that woman and he does not know where she is,she had told me he simply used and trashed her.I am not saying she is,but your wife, or any woman, could choose to have an affair and you will never know(you sound like a dedicated husband and I honestly pray that she does not). From personal experience,the married women I have had affairs with are highly trusted by husbands,look very innocent and believable.If for example she tells hubby she is at work or Wal-mart or church,hubby has mostly no reason to doubt.There is a story here where a married woman said that she has been having a 22 year old affair and hubby has no clue,there is another story about a guy who started ** his buddy's gf, while bf was passed out drunk, and wants to do so for as long as he can without any remorse, go figure!

sorry to hear about that loss of somebody so significant in your life. it sound to me like she might be able to resolve your post's original issue and also bring happiness to your life. i should say finding her may be less of a challenge than you think. there are plenty of search firms out there and lots of inexpensive private investigators that could find her with just minimal information about her past and without your having to bust the piggybank or take a second mortgage. our first step at work is usually www.americafind.com (very reasonably priced) and that might be a good starting place for you too but there are lots of providers in that field. i wish you luck. also now that i read what you said about how good some cheaters can hide their tracks and look "innocent and believable" i think i need to be more worried about my boy at work laying hooks in my wife they are really almost too friendly sometimes and i know from our past that my wife loves big ** and even loves to talk with her girlfriends about guys who have big **. i think now that maybe i have been overlooking something obvious with both of them.

You may not need to be overly vigilant,protective or paranoid,but pay attention or better yet,have a candid talk with your wife.From what you have written,there is minimal chance something could happen-though "minimal" is still a chance.I think you may need to be concerned a little bit if they are friendly.As you and I know,all any guy needs really to ** a woman is for the woman to give him some minimal audience, to talk and interact with her, and the rest could be history.Plus,sounds like your wife is outgoing enough to get a guy interested, if she talks about big ** openly(she has a normal good taste in my opinion).I have looked for that lady(Sarah) for years on google, facebook, Zabasearch, white pages, etc to no avail. I think she is too old to have kids now but she would be a good person to have back in my life-though I am sure she is taken by some nice black guy.I live too many states away to go to her small town and ask around. Her parents were kool,am told her dad died years ago,her sisters were very racist,she was the only girl in the family of 4 sisters who liked ** **,lol.One sister married a millionaire and moved to Germany.Sarah was into farming and sometimes I wonder if she took over the family farm.

you may have been more right than i thought. my wife and i went to a big party last night and dameyan (my co-worker) was there with a date. after about an hour i realize my wife isnt in the room (it was a banquet room in a conference center). i wander around looking for her but no luck and then i look for dameyan and see that hes gone too. his date is there talking with some other women but not him. about 30-40 mins later i see her standing near the door with her girl friend and i ask where she was and she says 'mingling' like i was insulting her. a few mins later dameyan shows up from the hallway all smiles. a few weeks ago i might of not thought nothing about this but now i wonder if they went off to an empty room and **. i wanted to check out her ** when we got home but she put me off and then this morning i tried again but she cut me off for the rest of the weekend, all like she was mad at me. i think you might of been right all along. and im afraid this might of been going on for a long time and i had no idea. i never accused her of nothing but shes acting like i did.