Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant

I haven't contributed here before but I wanted to point something out to you that I think you know (by what you said) but should be more certain about. The woman who had you speak with her mother was doing that for a purpose. Actually it may be one of two purposes but it is certainly one or the other. The woman herself knows she's about to get pregnant . . . . BY YOU. That much is perfectly clear. And with that background, one of the following things is also a certainty. Either she is putting you in her mother's mind so she will remember having spoken with you just before her daughter became inseminated and impregnated, and so she'll then put two and two together and come up with "paternity". The other possibility is that the woman herself has already told her mother that you are going to knock her up and she wants her mother to have a connection to you . . . . just in case. I don't want to sound like Debbie Downer, or be an alarmist, nor am I the sort who finds infidelity around every corner, but I have myself been in the second category, and on both sides of the equation. I was 9 when I learned about my mother's frequent adultery. By the time I was 12, she began introducing me to her partners. Not the ones she only had flings with, but the ones she took as LTRs. She wanted me to see marriage from both the inside and the outside, and to see men from both the inside and the outside. It was a big part of the ** education that she gave me. She also wanted me to know who to call if anything ever happened to her: so they could come to the hospital, or if something worse happened, you see? Then, when I was older and married, I introduced my lovers to my mother. That was to a degree for the same reason. But I also introduced her to the men who fathered my children, so they could be involved in their children's lives if I died and my husband continued under the delusion he fathered them all. Sooooo, I think it's clear: you're about to become a father. Again! CONGRATS!