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Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
The question was not directed to me,but let me chime in. I have been in situations for sure when many white women,married or not,could not take no for an answer from me,whether it was for a relationship or for **. I actually found that to be very **,and almost always gave in:).
I went to my husband's office day before yesterday and as I was leaving, this woman got up from her desk and stood next to her cubicle, rubbing her lower abdomen, and smiling at me, which I took to mean she was suggesting a pregnancy, either than already exists or would be soon. I hope I misread her, but she seemed to be behaving trashy and looked at my husband's office door. I think she's telling me what they are doing. Also, I read that article you mentioned and it seemed to describe this woman, too. I'm scared even more now.
As hard as it may be for you, just look the other way and let nature take its course with your husband and this white woman. She obviously craves a black baby for him, and he wants to give her one. There's nothing you can do to stop it, so you might as well accept it and keep loving your husband. Since she is married, hopefully her husband will raise and support the offspring of this affair. While that hurts your pride, your husband still comes home to you and you are still his wife.
What you say makes a lot of sense, but I really wish it didn't. OMG how I wish it just made no sense at all. It surely does seem like they both want this baby together, and her nasty whorish behavior last week was the most direct indication that you are right: it was as though she were rubbing my nose in it. And if you ARE right (and I fear you are) then you're also right that there isn't anything I could possibly do to stop it. I just don't know if I have the strength to "look the other way" or to "let nature take its course". I don't know if I'm able to bear up under the weight of this affair, much less the product of it that they seem to be planning. But an even more painful thought has now begun creeping into the back of my mind. The way she acted in front of me last week at their office? She was enjoying it. No, she was LOVING being so blatant about her intent and their affair. So, here's the bad thought: what if they've already decided not to stop at one child?
I pray that you will have the strength to get through this, and that your husband's assistant will bear him the healthy baby they both seem to crave. If her husband stays with her ( a BIG if), and supports her baby, it will obviously make it easier for your husband to have additional children with her, without affecting your finances. What will be will be. Be strong!