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Scared I will Never Get a White Woman Pregnant
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
I am in my late 40s.I am so scared that I will grow old and die without having a child with a white woman.
Don't get hung up on a word and allow it to change your life or determine your future. "**" to an adult black male can be (frequently is) a deep compliment. The question is not what he calls you but how he treats you. Is he nice to you? Is he good to you in bed? Does he ** you like you want to be **? Does he buy you things (clothes, cars, jewelry, electronics, gifts) and take you nice places for dinners and vacations? Does he give you a good allowance? Has he agreed to provide housing for you if your parents kick you out? Does he introduce you to his friends? It sounds to me like you are really a woman in love. Don't give that up unless you're sure it's the right thing to do. Because some other girl -- perhaps your own sister, who sounds like she wants him and he wants her -- will come and take him as soon as you let him go. How would THAT make you feel?????
So, the word "**" is now flattering? Get the ** outta town. He's insulting her, demeaning her, keeping her in her place, keeping her down, making it clear he's boss and he's her owner, making it clear she's inferior. Being called a "**" is never a compliment.
It depends on who is saying it and how he says it. And it also depends on when he says it. I had a black lover who called me "**" but only when we were **. I always thought of it as he was telling me how good I looked and how ** I was and how good I was making love to him and how I was making him feel. Hearing my bull say that always made me ** harder and faster and more. I can't really say it was a compliment because it was more about ** but I never got offended by it or upset or nothing. It was like he was saying "your doing me right".
It all comes to to age. If she and her sister are underage and he is having ** with them, then he is a criminal. If they are legal, I totally support what he plans to do-knock them both up and have their parents raise and support the children. And "**" can definitely be a term of endearment.
If you'd ever been called "**" you would think it was endearing.